"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well I finally met a chick that could hold my interest.....things were going well and I thought we both were enjoying time with each other. Anyway to make a long story short i found out she met up with some guy. I found out and basically said im done with the whole situation. True we werent bf and gf but I just found it very disrespectful to me.

If she had any interest in me why on earth would she go see another dude? There is reason to believe that she was taking me for granted.

I did the cold walk away because i didnt know what else to do. What would you guys have done? I'm done tolerating bullshyt with females. i refuse to let them walk on me.

Any input would be great so that I can learn from this experience. Shes also about an 8 if that matters.

Regards,

John
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would have done the exact same thing.

What else are you gonna do... hang around, so she can pull that sh!t again? I bet she never dreamed in a million years you'd walk away at the drop of a hat. Serves her right, IMO.

And this, of course, is assuming you two are/were exclusive.
 
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Im normally not that bothered....because i would do the same thing to her. I would prob do that.....I would find out she is sleeping with another guy....oh yeah i forgot to tell you im sleeping with 2 other girls.

Anything goes until a relationship is exclusive.....dont forget that....I would only cold walk for sure if she lied about it. I can take a girl sleeping with another guy but i dont take lieing....

Depends on your morals and veiws i guess.....
 
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Alright thanks for replying back; I don’t feel as bad now. I'm done with wasting my time on girls that like keeping guys hanging around. As I’m getting older its easier to know what I’m looking for in a women. If she does something that sets a red flag up early I’m done. I’m not waiting for all the other red flags to pop up… one is enough to make me realize its not going to work out.

I have done the whole hanging around thing in the past and the results were not worth it IMO. I thought I was being a little harsh but now I realize my actions were justifiable.


-John
 
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