“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you think how hot a guys girl is is a good judge of his masculinity?

Would you say how attractive a man's partner is is a good marker of his masculinity?

  • yes

    Votes: 7 20.0%
  • No

    Votes: 28 80.0%

  • Total voters
    35

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

zekko

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Who do you think is more masculine?
I don't think it's a matter of more or less masculine, it's a matter of are you masculine or not? And soccer players are certainly masculine. Just like the athletic male body tends to be more attractive to women than the body builder male body. You might be tempted to say the body builder is more masculine, but I wouldn't say so. I still say the masculine is what attracts the feminine, just as it is the feminine that draws the masculine.
 

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we dont know how look to judge you, why dont you show your face if you are so brave pretty boi... i bet you are chinese.
Close. Does it upset you that your tiny and look like ass and I definetly ****ed hotter and more girls than you at a younger age?
 

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My GF is fairly ‘ hot’. But I’d say it’s more a looksmatch rather than my ‘masculinity’. Though I’d say I’m fairly masculine. But. Of course I’d say that.

Probably more like:

 

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6 masculines, and you couldn't mention what masculinity is, certainly, you are not masculine.
Masculine, masculine, masculine, masculine, masculine, masculine, masculine.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Men like attractive women - nice face, nice chest, nice personality and caring.
Women like attractive men - nice face, masculine (e.g., muscles), confident personality, and successful.

A male who is only masculine is like a woman who only has a good butt, or chest; but lacks a nice face and personality. Most women who only have a nice chest or a nice butt, but lacks a face and personality do not have a chance with a really attractive man.

A man who is only masculine (e.g., lifts all the time, barks orders, etc..) but has no personality.. or not successful will not have a good chance with at attractive women. HOWEVER, a masculine male will have a good chance at one night stands. Studies have shown the majority of women prefer extremely masculine males for one night stands.

For every girl that is dating a "skinny" professional soccer player, she has in all likelihood had multiple one night stands with a really masculine man. Or has dreamt of getting with a really masculine man. Most of the time, she likes to keep that on the down low.
 

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Men like attractive women - nice face, nice chest, nice personality and caring.
Women like attractive men - nice face, masculine (e.g., muscles), confident personality, and successful.

A male who is only masculine is like a woman who only has a good butt, or chest; but lacks a nice face and personality. Most women who only have a nice chest or a nice butt, but lacks a face and personality do not have a chance with a really attractive man.

A man who is only masculine (e.g., lifts all the time, barks orders, etc..) but has no personality.. or not successful will not have a good chance with at attractive women. HOWEVER, a masculine male will have a good chance at one night stands. Studies have shown the majority of women prefer extremely masculine males for one night stands.

For every girl that is dating a "skinny" professional soccer player, she has in all likelihood had multiple one night stands with a really masculine man. Or has dreamt of getting with a really masculine man. Most of the time, she likes to keep that on the down low.
Agree with the points made here
 

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No, the hotness of your woman is a sign of your perceived value, masculinity is internal, it doesn't add value by itself but it helps you get it.
 

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Masculinity is a complex phenomenon which can’t be distilled down to a person’s choice of partner
 

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Not at all. Her emotional anchor is her boyfriend or husband. Nothing more. The mere act of committing relegates him to a downgraded position. All other men are potential upgrades to a man who refuses to commit.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This brings us back to our extraordinary capacity for jumping to wild conclusions, after encountering a single fact("Dude has a beautiful woman"), an addiction The Manosphere shares with their so-called "enemies" on The Woke Left. There are MANY explanations as to why and how a fella gets a beautiful woman on his arm, aside from "He's Alpha". Just a few:

-He's gay, yet works in an industry/comes out of a culture where this remains heavily stigmatized, and so is she. They're actually friends, who've married for the sake of advancing their careers and concealing a truth that could send their lives into a tailspin

-He's rich, or at the very least not doing shabbily, yet socially inept, and she wants a guy who'll take care of her + Father her offspring... Ergo, they have an arrangement, spoken or otherwise: He gets her(kinda sorta, anyway)and doesn't have to trouble himself with the sometimes disquieting task of learning to be social, and she gets the white picket fence + the opportunity to bear children

-She LOOKS twenty or even 30 years younger than she actually is... That geriatric dude who's wifed her up thus isn't a modern day Tony Quinn, so much as he is a run of the mill retiree who's in the market for a reasonably pretty SO to go out to dinner with a few times per week, while they spend weekends laying around on the couch, watching Douglas Sirk movies

-She's been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and has resolved to sample a wide variety of men outside of the captain of the team types she ordinarily confines herself to. The dude you see on her arm is just currently "it"
 

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No, the hotness of your woman is a sign of your perceived value, masculinity is internal, it doesn't add value by itself but it helps you get it.
Late to the party but this is with all due respect bs.

The most common trap that most men fall for.

The hotness of your woman is first of all objective. Secondly it says zero to nun about your value. There are hot women chasing men in prison while friendzoning men that actually go somewhere in life. The latter has way more value
 
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