Do you think how hot a guys girl is is a good judge of his masculinity?

[Thebestthereeveris]

In my opinion, yes. Doesnt mean hes a good person nor does it mean hes someone i would be friends with. But its undeniable that a man's girl attractiveness is a big factor in how other men judge him. In my opinion, anyone that says otherwise is coping. Obviously there are other factors that make a great girl but lets be real 85% is looks. Want to hear your guys' opinion.

 

[zekko]

I have serious qualms about this, but I'm just going with my first instinct, so I voted yes.

 

[CoolWave1331]

I'm inclined to say yes but not always

Personal example: When I was still in college I used to work at a steakhouse we had to throw out this one guy. Was a really successful dude, older guy, in his 50's. He would harass and tried to bribe a couple of the servers, actually succeeded with one. Anyways he apparently had a reputation for this and was kicked out of a least one other place. He was a simp that straight up lead with his wallet.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Not a chance. The most formidable guys I've met and read about use 9-10s as the sexual equivalent of fast food, yet when they choose to go exclusive, pair up with 7-8s. Talking here gals like Marla Sokoloff back when she was on The Practice, and late 2000s Amanda Seyfried, rather than supermodels

Bringing sh-t-y people into your life will rob of your vitality, faster than Hirohito's storm troopers relieved expectant mothers in Nanjing of their 6 month old fetuses, all via the miracle of the bayonet

 

[Barrister]

Not at all. Haven’t you ever seen the multimillionaires who aren’t remotely masculine that suddenly have 9-10s at their side once they have their riches? Do you think they suddenly are “masculine” because they got rich?

Being “masculine” is way more than just how hot the babe is on your arm. More masculine men typically DO get better looking women than men who aren’t - but that wasn’t your question.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Your masculunity is so fragile that is attached to how hot you have a woman by your side? and also you are making men judge you? Are you looking for a father figure? Did you a get a job yet? Bills are pilling up, men don't sit around jerking off the entire day while posting $hit about women online when he can't even sustain himself.

If you saw I posted i got a new job two weeks ago. A good one at that. THe fact that your at a FORUM for GIRLS shows me you do care dumbass. lmao.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Not a chance. The most formidable guys I've met and read about use 9-10s as the sexual equivalent of fast food, yet when they choose to go exclusive, pair up with 7-8s. Talking here gals like Marla Sokoloff back when she was on The Practice, and late 2000s Amanda Seyfried, rather than supermodels

Bringing sh-t-y people into your life will rob of your vitality, faster than Hirohito's storm troopers relieved expectant mothers in Nanjing of their 6 month old fetuses, all via the miracle of the bayonet

Like i said looks arent the only thing that matter of course but dont rationalize. There are plenty of hot 8's who would make great girlfriends.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Your masculunity is so fragile that is attached to how hot you have a woman by your side? and also you are making men judge you? Are you looking for a father figure? Did you a get a job yet? Bills are pilling up, men don't sit around jerking off the entire day while posting $hit about women online when he can't even sustain himself.

To add to this a lot of what we do is for status. I don't do things for approval of other men but the things that men agree are not worthy that brings respect are hard. Getting a super hot girl is hard (by who you are not by money), getting rich is hard, getting fit is hard. This is why we respect those things

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

I'm inclined to say yes but not always

Personal example: When I was still in college I used to work at a steakhouse we had to throw out this one guy. Was a really successful dude, older guy, in his 50's. He would harass and tried to bribe a couple of the servers, actually succeeded with one. Anyways he apparently had a reputation for this and was kicked out of a least one other place. He was a simp that straight up lead with his wallet.

Not leading with your wallet is a given. I'm talking straight from who you are.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

wow a lot of people are saying no. So your saying two dudes, you dont know who they are but one has a hot girl the other has a mid you wont give the guy with a hotter girl more respect? This is initially you can know him more and not like him but initially.

 

[zekko]

Not a chance. The most formidable guys I've met and read about use 9-10s as the sexual equivalent of fast food, yet when they choose to go exclusive, pair up with 7-8s.

Assuming by "formidable", it sounds to me like you are saying masculine men get hot women (and I would consider 7s and 8s hot), not that they don't. To which I would agree.

 

[MatureDJ]

The only thing it is indicative of is his overall desirability. Masculinity is not valued much these days.

 

[MatureDJ]

Not at all. Haven’t you ever seen the multimillionaires who aren’t remotely masculine that suddenly have 9-10s at their side once they have their riches? Do you think they suddenly are “masculine” because they got rich?

Being “masculine” is way more than just how hot the babe is on your arm. More masculine men typically DO get better looking women than men who aren’t - but that wasn’t your question.

I'm wondering at what point my net wealth is high enough to play WealthGame. (I own about 1/3500th of AEVA, and if it becomes a trillion-dollar company, well, you do the math. ) I don't even know how to play WealthGame.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

The only thing it is indicative of is his overall desirability. Masculinity is not valued much these days.

Dont agree nature says otherwise.

 

[MatureDJ]

Dont agree nature says otherwise.

Gymcel

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Chico says it all

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Gymcel

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Women are attracted to mascuilnity the most. Are you calling me a gymcel?

 

[Clockwerk50]

I disagree. I’ve seen plenty of masculine guys such as blue-collar types like farmers, mechanics, construction workers, whose wives or girlfriends wouldn’t be considered “hot” by most standards.

Also, most of the stuff guys are told to do to “look good”—grooming, dressing well, good posture, manners, haircut, emotional awareness, wearing fragrance, keeping a clean house, dressing well, eating right—those are female traits women have traditionally mastered. In this context, a hyper-masculine man is rugged, blunt, unrefined.

 

[CornbreadFed]

No, there’s too many subjective factors that apply to this.

The biggest ones:

1). What is masculine? Too many different opinions on this alone.

2). Not everyone rates a female the same. Hot to you could be MID or uggo to someone else and vice versa?

3). Obvious outliers and contradictions. A guy that is masculine in your definition could easily be with a girl that you find unattractive. What does this entail?

4). Factors that apply to female genuine contradict this greatly. I seriously doubt this forum will consider a young pretty boy masculine. Otherwise, you do not know what is truly going on between a man and his partner. He could be paying for it, he could be in a dead bedroom relationship, he could be a slave, he could be a cuck…You won’t know or never know. Women find men with feminine features and traits more attractive than hyper masculine guys.

 

[zekko]

The only thing it is indicative of is his overall desirability. Masculinity is not valued much these days.

Are not women attracted to masculinity? Almost the entire premise of this site and others like it is based on that concept.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Assuming by "formidable", it sounds to me like you are saying masculine men get hot women...

It doesn't hurt one's chances, that's for sure