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A 19-Year-Old Girl Married An 89-Year-Old Man With Dementia For Money
This story has a sad ending
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Where I live if your over 75 you can't be legally held by a contract, however if the man or woman willingly gives it away then that is a different story but yeah having a will in place before the mind starts to go is important1) Most Senior living residents have family with POA and financial control.
2) Marriage Licenses wouldn't be issued to someone with dementia
3) Conflict of interest for staff to have personal relationship with residents.
Sorry guys totally unlikely and most likely a fictional story. Even if true, there is no family who were duped out of anything, let him die happy...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most goldiggers are not going to work at a senior care home to meet a rich guy simply because that involves actually doing some work. The whole point of being a golddigger is to avoid work, whilst living a life of luxury.my opinion:![]()
A 19-Year-Old Girl Married An 89-Year-Old Man With Dementia For Money
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Yep and not particularly appealing work either.Most goldiggers are not going to work at a senior care home to meet a rich guy simply because that involves actually doing some work. The whole point of being a golddigger is to avoid work, whilst living a life of luxury.
The only "work" that appeals to gold diggers is choosing expensive handbags.Yep and not particularly appealing work either.