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A 19-Year-Old Girl Married An 89-Year-Old Man With Dementia For Money
This story has a sad ending
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Where I live if your over 75 you can't be legally held by a contract, however if the man or woman willingly gives it away then that is a different story but yeah having a will in place before the mind starts to go is important1) Most Senior living residents have family with POA and financial control.
2) Marriage Licenses wouldn't be issued to someone with dementia
3) Conflict of interest for staff to have personal relationship with residents.
Sorry guys totally unlikely and most likely a fictional story. Even if true, there is no family who were duped out of anything, let him die happy...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most goldiggers are not going to work at a senior care home to meet a rich guy simply because that involves actually doing some work. The whole point of being a golddigger is to avoid work, whilst living a life of luxury.my opinion:![]()
A 19-Year-Old Girl Married An 89-Year-Old Man With Dementia For Money
This story has a sad endingmedium.com
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Yep and not particularly appealing work either.Most goldiggers are not going to work at a senior care home to meet a rich guy simply because that involves actually doing some work. The whole point of being a golddigger is to avoid work, whilst living a life of luxury.
The only "work" that appeals to gold diggers is choosing expensive handbags.Yep and not particularly appealing work either.