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A 19-Year-Old Girl Married An 89-Year-Old Man With Dementia For Money
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Where I live if your over 75 you can't be legally held by a contract, however if the man or woman willingly gives it away then that is a different story but yeah having a will in place before the mind starts to go is important1) Most Senior living residents have family with POA and financial control.
2) Marriage Licenses wouldn't be issued to someone with dementia
3) Conflict of interest for staff to have personal relationship with residents.
Sorry guys totally unlikely and most likely a fictional story. Even if true, there is no family who were duped out of anything, let him die happy...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most goldiggers are not going to work at a senior care home to meet a rich guy simply because that involves actually doing some work. The whole point of being a golddigger is to avoid work, whilst living a life of luxury.my opinion:![]()
A 19-Year-Old Girl Married An 89-Year-Old Man With Dementia For Money
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Yep and not particularly appealing work either.Most goldiggers are not going to work at a senior care home to meet a rich guy simply because that involves actually doing some work. The whole point of being a golddigger is to avoid work, whilst living a life of luxury.
The only "work" that appeals to gold diggers is choosing expensive handbags.Yep and not particularly appealing work either.