"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think femynists at least have the good quality of not being hypergamous?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this femynist with a PhD in Gender Studies who allowed a dirt-poor 3rd-World man knock up, and it got me thinking:

https://thebillfold.com/my-feminist...id-off-my-student-loan-629b051f180#.bdfyh27ma

Perhaps this is a bit anecdotal, but it seems that whenever I read about a strong femynist that actually has a man in her life, typically he is low status, perhaps with some defect like a disability, etc. It would be cognitively resonant that a woman that hates the way that women in general supplicate themselves to attract a high quality man would choose to not pursue such a high quality man, and hence they end up with a man that a regular women would consider far below her sexual market value.

Of course, it could be causality in reverse - i.e., that a femynist is so abhorred by men who have options in who to date/mate that they are left with the absolute bottom of the barrel, and they conveniently try to promote that they freely chose to go with such a low-status man to hide the truth that that was the best that they could do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Feminists. And you don't need to say anymore. You've said it all LOL

Feminists are an outdated community of angry women. If you look at them, most of them are either fat and wanna be promoted about it or are ugly and somehow (howdy, howdy), they hate men because men are after beauty and that is not what women are all about, apparently. These punks are women who show their boobs in public because they think it empowers women. They are generally so men-hating that of course the only men they could engage with are spineless, ****less manginas and manginas... are not what you call a high quality man.
 
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