"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think deployed military men should be worried about wifey cucking?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes.

Back in the day no. In todays hypergamic gynocentric society, i would be worried. Too many AFC will hit on her. Tough situation.
 

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I mean what do you expect? Is she suppose to not get no d!ck for alllll that time the deployed husband is gone?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A friend of mine got married back in the 80s when he was in the service. He then went back to his base and came back on a leave the next weekend to find her in bed with some other dude. So yeah, it happens. Even back then.
 

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A friend of mine got married back in the 80s when he was in the service. He then went back to his base and came back on a leave the next weekend to find her in bed with some other dude. So yeah, it happens. Even back then.
That's terrible.
 

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A friend of mine got married back in the 80s when he was in the service. He then went back to his base and came back on a leave the next weekend to find her in bed with some other dude. So yeah, it happens. Even back then.
A lot of service members kill themselves over this too. The number one killer of marines in suicide and if they were over dead in a combat zone, a lot of times they think of their wife or girlfriend to get them through, so when they come back and find out whT happened...

When I was in my infantry training battalion, they told us to break up with our girlfriends before we get deployed because she will be the same as you left her when you come back, freshly fvcked.

The instructors would always say don't get married, and fvck women litterally and figuratively. They even told us a storiy about degrading a prostitute, a barracks whovre.
 
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And this is why adultery should still be considered a felony. Sadly, it's only still considered a felony in 5 States. These women are disgusting. Not even sure that they should be called women; slime seems more fit.
 

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And this is why adultery should still be considered a felony. Sadly, it's only still considered a felony in 5 States. These women are disgusting. Not even sure that they should be called women; slime seems more fit.
It's even worse when women cheat because it's so easy for them to cheat, and i think a man can love a woman and cheat. A woman who cheats doesn't love or respect him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is not something new. Look back at the Vietnam era. 18-20 year old young men were deployed to fight a battle on the other side of the earth. Meanwhile, their gf's and wives cheated on them with the draft dodgers and scared pvssies that found every way imaginable to not get enlisted.

Those that didnt get a Dear John letter in the mail while overseas came home to find their sweethearts and their new liberal bf's yelling at them and spitting on them when they stepped foot off the plane and their feet touched US soil again.

Yeah, lots of women were trash then and the dynamics are still the same today.
 

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Mary Jane Rottencrotch.
 

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Hummmm, I think its possible not for her to cheat. So much digital communication, so I still have hope. Not everyone cheats.

How long will the person be deployed? If you can visit every 4 months then IMO its doable. Also,
I would leave it at a "Open" relationship. I had a woman propose this to me, because she was a flight attendant, so it made sense since she was constantly away. Looking back I should of just agree with her but I got instantly attached, she was so hot. scale of 15, not 10. With a Psychology Degree.

Here's something I recently learn, some may not agree, but - She's human too. Would be it so hard to accept the reality and know she could end up having sex with some one else? Can you be man enough to get passed it? I think and probably can. Think about Porn stars or strippers, would it be any different? Some are married. I dated a stripper and not embarrassed to admit it. Took some emotional strength, but it can be done.

If a person is leaving for a "long" term, you seriously cannot be selfish and expect someone to wait on you? Unless you propose and make every effort to stay in touch. IMO It is possible. Gentleman, if you find yourself in this position, then learn the ropes, don't demonized the woman.
 

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When I was in my infantry training battalion, they told us to break up with our girlfriends before we get deployed because she will be the same as you left her when you come back, freshly fvcked.

The instructors would always say don't get married, and fvck women litterally and figuratively.
If going through BUDS you'd better not be "humping any baggage" either.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hummmm, I think its possible not for her to cheat. So much digital communication, so I still have hope. Not everyone cheats.

How long will the person be deployed? If you can visit every 4 months then IMO its doable. Also,
I would leave it at a "Open" relationship. I had a woman propose this to me, because she was a flight attendant, so it made sense since she was constantly away. Looking back I should of just agree with her but I got instantly attached, she was so hot. scale of 15, not 10. With a Psychology Degree.

Here's something I recently learn, some may not agree, but - She's human too. Would be it so hard to accept the reality and know she could end up having sex with some one else? Can you be man enough to get passed it? I think and probably can. Think about Porn stars or strippers, would it be any different? Some are married. I dated a stripper and not embarrassed to admit it. Took some emotional strength, but it can be done.

If a person is leaving for a "long" term, you seriously cannot be selfish and expect someone to wait on you? Unless you propose and make every effort to stay in touch. IMO It is possible. Gentleman, if you find yourself in this position, then learn the ropes, don't demonized the woman.
Roflmao!
 

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Back in the Days.... Military was suggesting their Men in Service ''knock-up'', get pregnant their wife before leaving.

It was the best way for the Lady: not to cheat, be busy at home (boredom is a reason people cheat)
It was also the best way for the men : to fight harder
 

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It's even worse when women cheat because it's so easy for them to cheat, and i think a man can love a woman and cheat. A woman who cheats doesn't love or respect him.
Disgusting. A man lays his life on the line and the one thing she had to do is just honor her commitment. Damn shame what has come to morals these days. This, of course, goes with both men and women.
 

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When I was in Desert Storm my girlfriend sent me a video tape greeting for Christmas a lot of us got VHS tapes sent to us.One soldier got a video tape sent to him and when he watched it in the rec tent it was a tape of his wife sucking some guys d!ck.We call these men 'JODY".....JODY is the man back home fvcking your wife or girlfriend.We used to run in the morning for exercise and we would sing ……"Ain't no use in going home...Jody's got your girl and gone.....":p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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