"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think controversy over painting showing pubic hair is indicative of its power?

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http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl...all_s_painting_runs_up_against_the_pubic.html

It seems to me the public prudence over a work of art showing a little pubic hair is nothing more than society saying that the golden vajaja should be held up to the highest level of reverence - and continues to send the signal to men that they need to be slaves to it (helping our hormones do their task. :p) I'm not sure if this is cognitively resonant with the matriarchy or patriarchy. :confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
 

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logicallefty said:
A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

Correct. I'm not sure what the deeper meaning associated with shaved is. Maybe it's to protest George Bush lol.

But, all kidding aside, I swear women do it to hide their true/natural hair color. She can be blonde one week, brunette another week, and blue another week lol.



That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
Agreed.

I think that slightly trimmed is ok, but I don't like shaved.
 

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Malcontent said:
That stubble sure can hurt
Sort of like a pipe on a belt sander..watch them sparks fly, boyeeee!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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