"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you think controversy over painting showing pubic hair is indicative of its power?

MatureDJ

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http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl...all_s_painting_runs_up_against_the_pubic.html

It seems to me the public prudence over a work of art showing a little pubic hair is nothing more than society saying that the golden vajaja should be held up to the highest level of reverence - and continues to send the signal to men that they need to be slaves to it (helping our hormones do their task. :p) I'm not sure if this is cognitively resonant with the matriarchy or patriarchy. :confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
 

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logicallefty said:
A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

Correct. I'm not sure what the deeper meaning associated with shaved is. Maybe it's to protest George Bush lol.

But, all kidding aside, I swear women do it to hide their true/natural hair color. She can be blonde one week, brunette another week, and blue another week lol.



That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
Agreed.

I think that slightly trimmed is ok, but I don't like shaved.
 

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Malcontent said:
That stubble sure can hurt
Sort of like a pipe on a belt sander..watch them sparks fly, boyeeee!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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