"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you think controversy over painting showing pubic hair is indicative of its power?

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http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl...all_s_painting_runs_up_against_the_pubic.html

It seems to me the public prudence over a work of art showing a little pubic hair is nothing more than society saying that the golden vajaja should be held up to the highest level of reverence - and continues to send the signal to men that they need to be slaves to it (helping our hormones do their task. :p) I'm not sure if this is cognitively resonant with the matriarchy or patriarchy. :confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
 

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logicallefty said:
A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

Correct. I'm not sure what the deeper meaning associated with shaved is. Maybe it's to protest George Bush lol.

But, all kidding aside, I swear women do it to hide their true/natural hair color. She can be blonde one week, brunette another week, and blue another week lol.



That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
Agreed.

I think that slightly trimmed is ok, but I don't like shaved.
 

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Malcontent said:
That stubble sure can hurt
Sort of like a pipe on a belt sander..watch them sparks fly, boyeeee!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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