"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think controversy over painting showing pubic hair is indicative of its power?

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http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl...all_s_painting_runs_up_against_the_pubic.html

It seems to me the public prudence over a work of art showing a little pubic hair is nothing more than society saying that the golden vajaja should be held up to the highest level of reverence - and continues to send the signal to men that they need to be slaves to it (helping our hormones do their task. :p) I'm not sure if this is cognitively resonant with the matriarchy or patriarchy. :confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
 

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logicallefty said:
A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

Correct. I'm not sure what the deeper meaning associated with shaved is. Maybe it's to protest George Bush lol.

But, all kidding aside, I swear women do it to hide their true/natural hair color. She can be blonde one week, brunette another week, and blue another week lol.



That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
Agreed.

I think that slightly trimmed is ok, but I don't like shaved.
 

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That stubble sure can hurt
Sort of like a pipe on a belt sander..watch them sparks fly, boyeeee!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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