"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you think controversy over painting showing pubic hair is indicative of its power?

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http://www.slate.com/articles/doubl...all_s_painting_runs_up_against_the_pubic.html

It seems to me the public prudence over a work of art showing a little pubic hair is nothing more than society saying that the golden vajaja should be held up to the highest level of reverence - and continues to send the signal to men that they need to be slaves to it (helping our hormones do their task. :p) I'm not sure if this is cognitively resonant with the matriarchy or patriarchy. :confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
 
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logicallefty said:
A beard on the clam just isn't "cool" anymore. Many women are just down right against it. Look at how many women shave now vs how many don't?

Correct. I'm not sure what the deeper meaning associated with shaved is. Maybe it's to protest George Bush lol.

But, all kidding aside, I swear women do it to hide their true/natural hair color. She can be blonde one week, brunette another week, and blue another week lol.



That's actually another topic I may post about sometime. I personally like my clam to have a beard but I know I am in the minority on that. Long live the 70s!:rockon: When I am in an LTR I tell my woman not to shave and none of them are happy with that.

But yeah MatureDJ I think you are right, it's about the \|/ and the women with it being held to the highest level of reverance. (in their minds)
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Agreed.

I think that slightly trimmed is ok, but I don't like shaved.
 
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That stubble sure can hurt
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Sort of like a pipe on a belt sander..watch them sparks fly, boyeeee!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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