“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you think chicks that say on Tinder that they are interested in older men are legitimate?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Borknagar

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No, Anne this is online dating in general. You want a legitimate women there's the whole passport and plane cost. I've met legitimate women online to talk to to help heal from a divorce, but had to change my location to parts of the world where there are still good women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pierce Manhammer

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I'd say 98% of the time it's about affluence and money. Proceed with care. There are genuinely those who are attracted to older men for one reason or another - which points to other things, but that is a different post. 10-15 years is not that bad - anything beyond that - again, proceed with caution.

Given so many men here believe that a woman attracted to a man's affluence is ok, they shouldn't have a problem.

A good rule in life is "if it seems too good to be true it most likely is".
 

zekko

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Could be some sort of code for wanting a guy with money. That's not necessarily as sinister as it sounds. It might be as simple as wanting to go to some interesting places that the guys she's been dating can't afford. Can't spend all the time in the bedroom, after all. Well, I guess you could, but there's more to life.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Out of the most recent 10 girls I have talked to on Hinge, the average age gap is 11.4 years younger ranging from 22-48. I'm 47. It's never been easier for me to match with younger women. The average age gap for myself has increased as I've gotten older.
 

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I think a good question is, “Why should we care if women are sincere or not about this?”
 

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At the absolute lower end, the vast majority of men don't even start to mature until the age of 23. In my experience women do like older guys (30+) over younger guys if all else is the same.

None of this is to deny the fact that most women will go where the money is.
 

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Yep, she’s looking for a weekly allowance.
 
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