"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you think chicks are wearing crop-tops to the office so as to entice Chad to hit on them?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't think so. There are not a lot of "Chads" working in offices. Most male office workers are beta males, many of whom are married to frumpy women and past their prime women. Crop tops might help with the few "Chads" that are in the office, but most women aren't looking to attract those elite men in the workplace. Also, a lot of men in the white collar office workplaces are quite concerned with #MeToo, so they aren't psyched about hotties in crop tops where they work.

In blue collar and other non-office settings, a woman wearing sexy clothes at work could be a ploy for dating. Bar/restaurant workers and gym workers are known to date each other.

The women who wear crop tops to do office work are doing it more for attention and comfort.
 

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Women understand the Game more than men. Remember that beta male is not a concept that exists for women.

Women wear whatever the **** they want to the office cos they are not gonna be forced to wear crappy and uncomfortable suit and tie ensembles. Men for some reason still think they need to confrom and go to the office with neat trousers, tucked in shirt, suit or tie.

Women simply wear watever the **** they want to work and men really need to follow suit. The question isnt why do women wear whatever they want, dresses, jeans, various different types of clothing, hairstyles etc but men are expected to wear a suit and tie, be mostly clean-shaven and all generally wear the same formal shirt and trousers combo.
 

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I've never seen 'crop tops' in any office I've ever worked in (banking/financial services) - immediate violation of dress code. Maybe more acceptable in 'creative industry' offices. At any rate, women showing belly skin are definitely looking for attention from someone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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