"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think chicks are wearing crop-tops to the office so as to entice Chad to hit on them?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SW15

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I don't think so. There are not a lot of "Chads" working in offices. Most male office workers are beta males, many of whom are married to frumpy women and past their prime women. Crop tops might help with the few "Chads" that are in the office, but most women aren't looking to attract those elite men in the workplace. Also, a lot of men in the white collar office workplaces are quite concerned with #MeToo, so they aren't psyched about hotties in crop tops where they work.

In blue collar and other non-office settings, a woman wearing sexy clothes at work could be a ploy for dating. Bar/restaurant workers and gym workers are known to date each other.

The women who wear crop tops to do office work are doing it more for attention and comfort.
 

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Women understand the Game more than men. Remember that beta male is not a concept that exists for women.

Women wear whatever the **** they want to the office cos they are not gonna be forced to wear crappy and uncomfortable suit and tie ensembles. Men for some reason still think they need to confrom and go to the office with neat trousers, tucked in shirt, suit or tie.

Women simply wear watever the **** they want to work and men really need to follow suit. The question isnt why do women wear whatever they want, dresses, jeans, various different types of clothing, hairstyles etc but men are expected to wear a suit and tie, be mostly clean-shaven and all generally wear the same formal shirt and trousers combo.
 

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I've never seen 'crop tops' in any office I've ever worked in (banking/financial services) - immediate violation of dress code. Maybe more acceptable in 'creative industry' offices. At any rate, women showing belly skin are definitely looking for attention from someone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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