"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you think Chads are more likely to be accused of sexual assault because at least women will walk with them alone?

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Here's a Chad that was assaulting women at a Catholic retreat!
Accusations against him, meanwhile, have mounted: six other women accused d’Espalungue of sexual misconduct at LSU in another lawsuit filed in 2021 against the university. Two of them say in court filings that d’Espalungue raped them, while the other four described other types of sexual harassment and unsettling interactions.
He has not been criminally charged in those cases. Their lawsuit described him as a “charming, handsome and successful serial sexual predator.”
my opinion: Incel-tier men like the famous character from "Whatever" Raphael are not allowed by women the opportunity to walk alone with them, and hence they don't get close enough to their intended victim while being far away from everyone else to do an "assault". But when a Chad says, "hey, let's take a walk", the chicks' inner hamster can't resist.

I'll even go so far as to say that women's hypergamous nature is such that they wouldn't have a problem letting it be known that they walked alone with their Chad assaulter, whereas they would be embarrassed to have it be known that they walked alone with an Incel.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Notice that the Chad guy didn't get charged criminally? Do you think he also slept with the prosecution too?
 

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I think generally women will be more forgiving of Chad's behaviors when it comes to taking liberties. But a lot of Chads can get into trouble just due to the sheer number of conquests that they go through. If they run through the wrong woman, for example, they can get accused. It's a numbers game, in part.

Now actual blatant assault is a different story.
 

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An ugly man is more likely to be considered an harasser given the same behaviour.

A good man is more likely to be accused and reported given the same conviction of her.

Generally speaking being a chad who is dangerous is the safest bet since there are lesser chance your behaviour will be disliked or that you will be reported.

Women drag to the court their nice guy husband not the psyco guy that solves problems with bullets.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A good man is more likely to be accused and reported given the same conviction of her.
It's partly expectations. She expects the cad to behave in a certain way, so she isn't surprised when he does. And she knows what he is about, so she can go to him when she wants that type of thing.
 
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