"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Do you think Chads are more likely to be accused of sexual assault because at least women will walk with them alone?

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Here's a Chad that was assaulting women at a Catholic retreat!
Accusations against him, meanwhile, have mounted: six other women accused d’Espalungue of sexual misconduct at LSU in another lawsuit filed in 2021 against the university. Two of them say in court filings that d’Espalungue raped them, while the other four described other types of sexual harassment and unsettling interactions.
He has not been criminally charged in those cases. Their lawsuit described him as a “charming, handsome and successful serial sexual predator.”
my opinion: Incel-tier men like the famous character from "Whatever" Raphael are not allowed by women the opportunity to walk alone with them, and hence they don't get close enough to their intended victim while being far away from everyone else to do an "assault". But when a Chad says, "hey, let's take a walk", the chicks' inner hamster can't resist.

I'll even go so far as to say that women's hypergamous nature is such that they wouldn't have a problem letting it be known that they walked alone with their Chad assaulter, whereas they would be embarrassed to have it be known that they walked alone with an Incel.
 

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Notice that the Chad guy didn't get charged criminally? Do you think he also slept with the prosecution too?
 

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I think generally women will be more forgiving of Chad's behaviors when it comes to taking liberties. But a lot of Chads can get into trouble just due to the sheer number of conquests that they go through. If they run through the wrong woman, for example, they can get accused. It's a numbers game, in part.

Now actual blatant assault is a different story.
 

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An ugly man is more likely to be considered an harasser given the same behaviour.

A good man is more likely to be accused and reported given the same conviction of her.

Generally speaking being a chad who is dangerous is the safest bet since there are lesser chance your behaviour will be disliked or that you will be reported.

Women drag to the court their nice guy husband not the psyco guy that solves problems with bullets.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A good man is more likely to be accused and reported given the same conviction of her.
It's partly expectations. She expects the cad to behave in a certain way, so she isn't surprised when he does. And she knows what he is about, so she can go to him when she wants that type of thing.
 
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