"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think British tabloid boobie model became ISIS bride because they are the "baddest boys"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:

https://www.rt.com/uk/414458-glamor-model-isis-sun

Here is a blond-haired, blue-eyed WHITE woman who was attractive enough to be a boobie model in a British tabloid (for those who don't know, these tabloids always have a picture of some topless model somewhere inside) became an ISIS bride. I just have to think that her inner hamster was telling her that she needed to mate with the baddest boy on the planet, and she figured that ISIS jihadists are just such men.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75

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She looks chunky to me.
 
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