"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you think being a Don Juan is less about the ability to game every woman...

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and more about knowing when it's going on and when to walk away?

Been getting so many bites from POF lately and it seems to me you can really tell when a girl is into you. The conversation flows freely, the flirting comes naturally and almost bounces off one another like you are both engaged in a game you both want to play. Whereas other times you enter into a communication and it feels forced etc. Do you know what I mean?

Makes life so much easier knowing which ones to go after and which to drop, no?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This guy gets it:)

And its about knowing that those good options will keep coming, that as good as any one option might be, they are all replaceable.
 

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:-) said:
and more about knowing when it's going on and when to walk away?

Been getting so many bites from POF lately and it seems to me you can really tell when a girl is into you. The conversation flows freely, the flirting comes naturally and almost bounces off one another like you are both engaged in a game you both want to play. Whereas other times you enter into a communication and it feels forced etc. Do you know what I mean?

Makes life so much easier knowing which ones to go after and which to drop, no?

*ding ding ding!* You, sir have won the internet today. That is exactly what it's all about.
 
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