"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think being a Don Juan is less about the ability to game every woman...

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and more about knowing when it's going on and when to walk away?

Been getting so many bites from POF lately and it seems to me you can really tell when a girl is into you. The conversation flows freely, the flirting comes naturally and almost bounces off one another like you are both engaged in a game you both want to play. Whereas other times you enter into a communication and it feels forced etc. Do you know what I mean?

Makes life so much easier knowing which ones to go after and which to drop, no?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This guy gets it:)

And its about knowing that those good options will keep coming, that as good as any one option might be, they are all replaceable.
 

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:-) said:
and more about knowing when it's going on and when to walk away?

Been getting so many bites from POF lately and it seems to me you can really tell when a girl is into you. The conversation flows freely, the flirting comes naturally and almost bounces off one another like you are both engaged in a game you both want to play. Whereas other times you enter into a communication and it feels forced etc. Do you know what I mean?

Makes life so much easier knowing which ones to go after and which to drop, no?

*ding ding ding!* You, sir have won the internet today. That is exactly what it's all about.
 
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