"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think ballet dancers get a lot of poontang?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article about how ballet dancer boys get picked on, an it got me thinking:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/ballet-bullying_us_59d5148ce4b0218923e724bf
In Risner’s study, teenage boys reported having been teased “forever” and “ALLLLLLLLLL the time,” and more than half said the most significant challenge they confront as boys in ballet is the harassment that serves to police their masculinity — “the homophobic attitude of some” and “the assumption that ballet is only for girls and gay men.” More than 85 percent said more boys would study dance if boys and men weren’t teased and harassed so much for dancing.
My opinion: I bet they're swimming in it - which is why Man has evolved to be homophobic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dated a female ballet dancer in college. She was loads of fun.
 

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Yes, they can get plenty of it. If you work on a stage, field, or track in front of fans you can get all you want, But as quantity goes up, it’s value to you decreases.
 

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Do you know how strong they are?

They into dancing and music?

Hell Yeah, if they not playing in the "guy" team...Damn they must need 3-4 woman per putting it up (Yeah they must be quitegood)

I knew à female ballet dancer.. quite tthe fun

Ballet is like gymnastic, alot of hockey players and sport athlètes follow ballet lessons on the side. The ballet dancer have superman strength, know music, know dance and are compétitive (ballet school is cut throat only 5% graduate.. the other 95% are sent back to a typical school)


They must be the quite catch even broke
 

MatureDJ

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Do you know how strong they are?
Yes, they have to dance lugging around and lifting a 100 pound weight, and still be extraordinarily graceful.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The ballet dancer have superman strength,
Uh, yea not really superhuman strength, but supreme relative strength in terms of bodyweight. Quite agile and flexible, but not really superhuman.
 
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