"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you think ballet dancers get a lot of poontang?

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I was reading this article about how ballet dancer boys get picked on, an it got me thinking:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/ballet-bullying_us_59d5148ce4b0218923e724bf
In Risner’s study, teenage boys reported having been teased “forever” and “ALLLLLLLLLL the time,” and more than half said the most significant challenge they confront as boys in ballet is the harassment that serves to police their masculinity — “the homophobic attitude of some” and “the assumption that ballet is only for girls and gay men.” More than 85 percent said more boys would study dance if boys and men weren’t teased and harassed so much for dancing.
My opinion: I bet they're swimming in it - which is why Man has evolved to be homophobic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dated a female ballet dancer in college. She was loads of fun.
 

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Yes, they can get plenty of it. If you work on a stage, field, or track in front of fans you can get all you want, But as quantity goes up, it’s value to you decreases.
 

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Do you know how strong they are?

They into dancing and music?

Hell Yeah, if they not playing in the "guy" team...Damn they must need 3-4 woman per putting it up (Yeah they must be quitegood)

I knew à female ballet dancer.. quite tthe fun

Ballet is like gymnastic, alot of hockey players and sport athlètes follow ballet lessons on the side. The ballet dancer have superman strength, know music, know dance and are compétitive (ballet school is cut throat only 5% graduate.. the other 95% are sent back to a typical school)


They must be the quite catch even broke
 

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Do you know how strong they are?
Yes, they have to dance lugging around and lifting a 100 pound weight, and still be extraordinarily graceful.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The ballet dancer have superman strength,
Uh, yea not really superhuman strength, but supreme relative strength in terms of bodyweight. Quite agile and flexible, but not really superhuman.
 
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