"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you think a girl will be more up for sex if she won't see you for a month?

Kal0051

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This girl I've seen a couple of times over the last month and a half (I haven't slept with her yet) is going to another country for a little over a month. I suggested we meet up for drinks or something before she goes, she thought it was a good idea although she isn't sure if she has time (she has like a week to pack and get ready, plus she works alot) but she said she'll do her best to make time. I'd like to close this girl before she goes. Do you think she'd be more up to it since we won't see each other for a while?

And in case you tell me she'll probably be hooking up with guys when she's gone, I figure that she will and I don't mind. We're very casual, she knows I see other girls and I assume she sees other guys.

Anyway, thanks for your opinion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chosen1

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Yeah she'll be up for sex with other guys if you don't see her for a month. You haven't slept with her yet. You better get it going. Invite her over, fvck(no sex) around a little send her home hot and bother. Ask her to come over again a few days later. A month is way too long. Mystery said it should only take seven hours. And if you wait a month to fvck what incentive does she have to come fvck you. She already did half of Europe or whatever
 

Kal0051

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well I don't have the time to plan 2 different meet ups, we'll probably only get 1 night to hang out before she goes. I figure I'll invite her over after drinks (say "let's watch a movie or something", but there won't be no movie playing if you know what I mean). We've already made out and ****, just no sex.

And not that it matters but she's going to somewhere in california (she told me where, just can't remember right now).
 
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