"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you think a girl will be more up for sex if she won't see you for a month?

Kal0051

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This girl I've seen a couple of times over the last month and a half (I haven't slept with her yet) is going to another country for a little over a month. I suggested we meet up for drinks or something before she goes, she thought it was a good idea although she isn't sure if she has time (she has like a week to pack and get ready, plus she works alot) but she said she'll do her best to make time. I'd like to close this girl before she goes. Do you think she'd be more up to it since we won't see each other for a while?

And in case you tell me she'll probably be hooking up with guys when she's gone, I figure that she will and I don't mind. We're very casual, she knows I see other girls and I assume she sees other guys.

Anyway, thanks for your opinion.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chosen1

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Yeah she'll be up for sex with other guys if you don't see her for a month. You haven't slept with her yet. You better get it going. Invite her over, fvck(no sex) around a little send her home hot and bother. Ask her to come over again a few days later. A month is way too long. Mystery said it should only take seven hours. And if you wait a month to fvck what incentive does she have to come fvck you. She already did half of Europe or whatever
 

Kal0051

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well I don't have the time to plan 2 different meet ups, we'll probably only get 1 night to hang out before she goes. I figure I'll invite her over after drinks (say "let's watch a movie or something", but there won't be no movie playing if you know what I mean). We've already made out and ****, just no sex.

And not that it matters but she's going to somewhere in california (she told me where, just can't remember right now).
 
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