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Do you text late at night?

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Hey guys,

I have girls who text me really late at night like midnight till like 4 but I dont reply back until later in the morning/afternoon because I feel like thats apart of the texting rules

Do you guys text girls late at night and have conversations? It seems like this day and age everyone texts
 

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Hey guys,

I have girls who text me really late at night like midnight till like 4 but I dont reply back until later in the morning/afternoon because I feel like thats apart of the texting rules

Do you guys text girls late at night and have conversations? It seems like this day and age everyone texts
Forget the "rules" of when to text.

Text whenever you like... If you're too busy to text than you're too busy to text... if you got a few minutes to check your messages and reply, do it... if you simply want to wait a day to reply, go for it.........the thing is to just be aware of when a girl is not invested or interested in a conversation and it's going nowhere... that's when it's important to be the one to end the conversation...

And don't talk about your life too much and reveal everything about yourself in one conversation, nothing kills interest faster than turning a girl into your diary or biographer. Instead, be flirtatious and remain a mystery.

Keeping interest through texting is a skill built through trial and error, and if you struggle at it I'd recommend following the common advice of "only text her to set up dates."

My only two rules (if anything) would be:
1. Don't invest more words than her into a text conversation, don't send long paragraphs
2. If she's not attempting to extend the conversation, end it
 

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Depends on the conversation. If its conducive to getting them out on a date or of a sexual nature, absolutely.

If it's a random "wyd" or "im bored" text id probably ignore it.
 

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If I'm awake and I'm not doing anything else I'll answer. But I never get into a long texting conversation ever, I'll just try to make a date if I'm interested or say I'll call later. In my experience when chicks do stuff like this they want you to do something and make a date.
 

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If I'm awake and I'm not doing anything else I'll answer. But I never get into a long texting conversation ever, I'll just try to make a date if I'm interested or say I'll call later. In my experience when chicks do stuff like this they want you to do something and make a date.
...or more
 

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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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I always send my paramour a goodnight text and "tuck her in bed"....

Yeah... might kind of lame but we have been doing it for years. Never have we forgotten.... Helps us stay connected.
 

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A good rule of thumb is to try to text as few times as possible before scoring.

That means there are two types of texting:

1) The text once and check your messages in a few hours texting (do mostly this - your pausing will get her to double or triple text and often reveal her true intentions, just by your waiting).
2) The occasional text conversation where you try to make her gush with romance (only do this as long as you are raising her interest level). I find that these are the key to the relationship. This can happen any time she wants.
 
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