"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you tell or not to tell...

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Hey Guys,

Wow its been a long while...

Anyway, I came to a little dilemma the other day and I'm wondering if any of you has run into this type of situation.

A girl friend of mine that I have known for about 20 years now recently met a a long time co worker of mine at a party and they seem to hit it off.

The following Monday that same co worker asked me "whats her deal? is she cool? is she crazy? should i know of any messed up ex boyfriends?"

I answered "Arent all grils crazy?? Yah, shes an awesome girl, out going loves to dance and I dont know of any messed up ex boyfriends."

and I left it at that.

But what I didnt tell him is that she has HEP C through a blood transfusion she had when she was a little kid.

Now, I know its none of my business to talk other peoples lives but if he bangs her without a condom and he gets infected its coming back to me.

If I tell him that she has HEP C he could blab his mouth and she will get back to me.

So, I decided to take the hear no evil, talk no evil, see no evil road.

Play stupid if anything.

What would you guys do???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm thinking you must not be too fond of this co-worker not to let him know. Sounds like he has some intentions toward her. What about the girl though? Is she straight up enough to tell him herself if things get sexual?
 

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Well, its not that I fond of him, hes a cool guy we can hang on a friday night kind of thing but ive been friends with her longer and I am pretty confident that she would tell him about her disease.

He does have intentions towards her and I think he is going to ask her out.

I know eventually I will hear it from both sides so I will keep my mouth shut.
 
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