Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you tell or not to tell...

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Hey Guys,

Wow its been a long while...

Anyway, I came to a little dilemma the other day and I'm wondering if any of you has run into this type of situation.

A girl friend of mine that I have known for about 20 years now recently met a a long time co worker of mine at a party and they seem to hit it off.

The following Monday that same co worker asked me "whats her deal? is she cool? is she crazy? should i know of any messed up ex boyfriends?"

I answered "Arent all grils crazy?? Yah, shes an awesome girl, out going loves to dance and I dont know of any messed up ex boyfriends."

and I left it at that.

But what I didnt tell him is that she has HEP C through a blood transfusion she had when she was a little kid.

Now, I know its none of my business to talk other peoples lives but if he bangs her without a condom and he gets infected its coming back to me.

If I tell him that she has HEP C he could blab his mouth and she will get back to me.

So, I decided to take the hear no evil, talk no evil, see no evil road.

Play stupid if anything.

What would you guys do???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm thinking you must not be too fond of this co-worker not to let him know. Sounds like he has some intentions toward her. What about the girl though? Is she straight up enough to tell him herself if things get sexual?
 

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Well, its not that I fond of him, hes a cool guy we can hang on a friday night kind of thing but ive been friends with her longer and I am pretty confident that she would tell him about her disease.

He does have intentions towards her and I think he is going to ask her out.

I know eventually I will hear it from both sides so I will keep my mouth shut.
 
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