I call women whenever I feel like it. There is some situations where doing too much, too soon can drive women away. However, this is usually a result of guys who are *exceptionally* needy and who believe if she leaves him he willl *never* find another woman again. The attitude would've driven her away sooner of later anyway, because no woman wants a man who has that extreme low of a self-concept. He's equivilent to a woman who smokes crack and sleeps with street beggers.
If you always avoid women because you're afraid that you are inadequete and unable to remain interesting to women, then a self-fuffiling prophecy is about to unfold. Most times women haven't wanted to escalate beyond once a week sex is because they were in a LTR with another guy before I ever met them. Often, women that I rarely contacted got frustrated and eventually disappeared (but not always).
The difference is this... she has to feel like she's winning you over, that you're not a feminine wussbag or a gross, unhygentic guy who would settle for anyone. She wants to feel like she's special, and she's doing things she read in COSMO and covertly winning you over throughout a period of time..when she does something that makes you mad, use the cute routine as described by PU101, I use that occasionally and it works well. If she's shi1t testing you hard and you're about to blow up, you can tell her she looks tired. I use that one on rare occasions and it always stop them dead in their tracks and reserves the direction of the mometum back to nuetral
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I personally think you're on the edge of a cliff, where sosuave is about to negatively influence you. When you start interpreting everything as a sh1t test, feeling that women are so much more powerful than you that you must avoid them or wait days before calling, and not recognizing the value you already have to offer the world, that's when being on this boards will crash your success with women down to nothing.
Here's the truth. Women have a hard time finding and keeping men. That's why they think all men worth having are taken. All they get are losers who either want their hand in marriage by the third date and throw money at them and cry if they say anything bad or guys who are too afraid to admit their interest. The problem with the later is women know he is interested, but he is too insecure to do anything about it. It is coming from a place of "trying hard" to be cool. It is incredibly obvious even to me (a guy). Neither of these extremes are good. These are recipes for ending up an unhappy little man who views the world around him as constant threat to his fragile ego.
