"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you talk badly about others?

tesla8520

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Hey guys, do you find yourself talking badly about other people?
Or judge others often?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey guys, do you find yourself talking badly about other people?
Or judge others often?
-If I find someone repugnant, I'll express my sentiments out loud and to their face(s), yep

-We all "judge" ourselves and others. Our contemporary fixation on being "non-judgmental" is the equivalent of trying to cook spaghetti, without boiling water... We're trying to do an end run around the sometimes disquieting work of investigating the accuracy of our thoughts and beliefs I.E. Our judgments

If you find yourself deifying someone, dehumanizing them, or labeling them a mediocrity, it's prudent to explore alternative ways of viewing this same person. Real-Life Ex.

Joseph Stalin was apparently deemed unremarkable by many of his peers, yet he became one of the most powerful men on Earth, remained so until his death, and was/is one of a minute handful who can honestly boast: "I altered and shaped the course of human history"

Perhaps he wasn't as bright, attractive, eloquent, or charismatic as his aforementioned peers who sneered dismissively at him. Dude who was anything but "a mediocrity" though
 
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No not individually. Group wise, yes. I talk about the corrupt governments around the world that we have including the states. How they the leaders do a lot of evil and corrupt acts behind close doors. No offense, America is still a great country, I served in the Military and getting benefits from it, but there's a lot more that needs to be said and make people aware what really goes down when no one is watching.
 
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