"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you still buy a gift?!

Love_Games?!?

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Guys, if the girl says that she doesn't want to exchange gifts for valentines day do you still go and get her a gift anyways. I'm told yes by friends but I'd like some advice on the boards and possibly some suggestions on what a good gift for this occasion would be.

Thanks in advance!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lifeislearning

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Yes, you need to get her something. Remember the money you spend is worthless. Most likely she would prefer something that made you think of her than something expensive. I had a gf for whom I wanted to but climbing gear so she could climb with me, but I decided aginst it because I thought it would never be used. I told her later and she said that would have been the sweetest idea ever even is she never used it. Women are weird.:p
 

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No.

All your friends that have told you that its a good idea are either girls or AFC's.

Dont know why you would want to waste money in the first place, but if she is the one suggesting it then definitely dont buy. It'll make her go 'aww thats so sweet' and pat you on the head like a puppy dog. Thats not the reaction you should be aiming for lol.
 

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Buy her a disco stick :p

No, don't buy her anything but do something fun with her. It doesn't have to be something expensive either.
 

mrRuckus

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No, don't let women get away with this bullcrap.

No means no, remember?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bigjohnson

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I've never purchased a Valentines gift or card in my life. Having said that, I am very generous about getting her things or taking her out if she's been doing the right things and earned it.

I don't do "planned" events in general, in fact, I don't like the attitude of entitlement it tends to engender. I'm huge on unplanned rewards for ongoing good behavior though.
 

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I give her the gift of fun on V-Day. If fun isn't enough for her, she can go.
 

lifeislearning

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This all depends on what your relationship with her is. With my LTR gfs we are always doing fun things so I get her something meaningful but inevpensive. I do favor activity related gifts though. If you do anything major for a non LTR then yes, AFC move. If she is a LTR gf and you want to keep her, different story.
 
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