"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you still buy a gift?!

Love_Games?!?

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Guys, if the girl says that she doesn't want to exchange gifts for valentines day do you still go and get her a gift anyways. I'm told yes by friends but I'd like some advice on the boards and possibly some suggestions on what a good gift for this occasion would be.

Thanks in advance!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lifeislearning

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Yes, you need to get her something. Remember the money you spend is worthless. Most likely she would prefer something that made you think of her than something expensive. I had a gf for whom I wanted to but climbing gear so she could climb with me, but I decided aginst it because I thought it would never be used. I told her later and she said that would have been the sweetest idea ever even is she never used it. Women are weird.:p
 

Ease

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No.

All your friends that have told you that its a good idea are either girls or AFC's.

Dont know why you would want to waste money in the first place, but if she is the one suggesting it then definitely dont buy. It'll make her go 'aww thats so sweet' and pat you on the head like a puppy dog. Thats not the reaction you should be aiming for lol.
 

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Buy her a disco stick :p

No, don't buy her anything but do something fun with her. It doesn't have to be something expensive either.
 

mrRuckus

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No, don't let women get away with this bullcrap.

No means no, remember?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bigjohnson

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I've never purchased a Valentines gift or card in my life. Having said that, I am very generous about getting her things or taking her out if she's been doing the right things and earned it.

I don't do "planned" events in general, in fact, I don't like the attitude of entitlement it tends to engender. I'm huge on unplanned rewards for ongoing good behavior though.
 

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I give her the gift of fun on V-Day. If fun isn't enough for her, she can go.
 

lifeislearning

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This all depends on what your relationship with her is. With my LTR gfs we are always doing fun things so I get her something meaningful but inevpensive. I do favor activity related gifts though. If you do anything major for a non LTR then yes, AFC move. If she is a LTR gf and you want to keep her, different story.
 
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