I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is true but all of that is propped up on the back of the beta male, ironically feminism is only being sustained by the men feminists despise. When enough of them finally say phuck it and drop out or take the red pill and civilization as we know it no longer has the footings to support it it's game over. We are starting to see the beginning of that now with the rise in welfare leeches, herbivores, MGTOW, red pillers, PUA, boys dropping out of fem-centric schools and Universities in record numbers and men in general taking their wealth offshore.Scaramouche said:Being an Industry there are now People with a vested interest in its survival..not just those who occupy jobs because of gender equity programs,but the lecturers,equal opportunity officers, and Welfare Workers who would be unemployed without it..No it has a long,long way to go!
It will burn out when it leads to complete disintegration of the modern society, which is inevitable.Bumsniff said:Do you see the cancer that is feminisim burning itself out anytime soon? Or something eventually taking it over, some new mutation of it?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Any tips on how to crush it? When I do it, I get called "a conservative" or a misogynist and get portrayed like a Taliban freedom fighter.Down Low said:Sorry to say this, but the truth is sometimes painful to hear.
You guys are political babes in the woods. You don't know how to vanquish feminism because you don't know how to play liberals against themselves, don't know how to build up your real stealth movement by setting up your undependable allies into a scapegoatable, pretend movement, and so on.
Look at the way the OP phrased the issue: passively. "Will feminism burn itself out?" He didn't ask "What can we do to crush feminism?" No esprit de corps. No plan for concrete action. I just cringe when I read stuff like this.
Bumsniff, I'm not knocking you personally, because I see no reason why you'd be any better equipped to tackle the problem than anybody else.
TL;DR: Politics is the action of people. People don't "go away" and their action doesn't "burn out."
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Generally, society can afford to blow money on liberalism only when the champagne's flowing. However, as the world economy declined over the last 40 years, and as many candles of liberalism were blown out, feminism florished.Scaramouche said:Dear Howiestern,
"So Down Low....how can we crush feminism?".....Well at the moment with great difficulty...My belief is that maybe only a very small proportion of folk are opinion formers,maybe 5% or so...not a lot you think,but how many serious anti feminists are there?....If you bunched together all the posters on what we call the Manosphere,you might get five posters for each State of The Union,maybe a hundred for the Brits and their Dominions,even less for the Rest...Whilst deferring to my learned colleague
Down Low,his post seems permeated by his own sense in the futility of the exercise!
Totally agree in that, feminism is a virus which needs a guest to feed it, in this case the government and tax money, being feminism against nature cannot sustain itself naturally.Bokanovsky said:As a man, there are many things that you can do to fight feminism. And they are things that do not involve picketing, lobbying or other forms of overt political activism. A few examples:
1) Do not give money to charities, especially mega-charities like the United Way. They are heavily invested in feminist and liberal causes.
2) Figure out a way to (legally) minimize your taxes. It goes without saying that feminism relies on state sponsorship. The less money the state gets, the less it will be able to spend on feminist causes.
3) In the same vein as #2, always vote for a political party that advocates lower taxes, even if it's tax breaks for the rich that you personally don't benefit from. The less money the state gets, the less will be available to the feminists.
4) If you are in a position of authority, i.e. you are an employer, do not hire any female employees who display feminist tendencies. Also, do not tolerate any disrespect on behalf of the female staff towards their male co-workers (a serious problem in many workplaces nowadays).
5) Become successful and respected in your field of work. Make other men look up to you. Once you earn their respect, use your new power to influence their political thinking.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.