"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you really think that a remarried single mommy would sex up the kid's dad?

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There was an interesting response to a posting I had about single mommie - in which basically it is speculated that a single mommy would be so bold as to sex up the bio dad (in secret) when he would come by for his visit. My goodness, wouldn't a single mommy think that upon securing a provisioning step-dad, that she should not do anything to jeopardize that situation? To do seems like a very irrational move.

But then again, such a single mommy probably did not care to date (as a maiden) the type of man that she would only want as a step-dad once she got into her predicament. And I suppose, in the biological long run, the fact that she produced spawn with the bio dad first means that she considers him more worthy than any subsequent provisioning stepdad, only putting up with putting out, and perhaps even gestating one of his own spawn for the purpose of solidifying his commitment to provisioning for her real favorite spawn - that from the initial man impregnating.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MatureDJ said:
the fact that she produced spawn with the bio dad first means that she considers him more worthy than any subsequent provisioning stepdad
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I think that's assuming a lot. I know that's the way they would have you believe things are around here. But it's not impossible that she is genuinely attracted to the new guy.

This scenario kind of assumes that the first guy is an alpha - which he may not be, he may just be some dumb kid who got her pregnant. And that the second guy is an AFC Herb type. Again, not necessarily, even if the guy did marry a single mother.
 
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My ex used to come and fvck me every other weekend until she finally found a guy who was willing to put up with all of her ****. She would still come by until he forbade her to see me again. I personally thought it was funny.
 
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Dear Warrior,
^^^^^^^^^^^^ You could be talking about me LOL....A very common phenomenon.....Maybe they just feel comfy,or is there is a sense in which they feel it gives them the Control back?
 
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