"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you realize how great we are?

SamePendo

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I mean, come on!

Most of us (I think) have had at least 2 dates in a week. I mean, some guys take YEARS to get that. Some of us have had those two dates the same day...

Who in the average population just suddenly goes and says ¨hi¨ to a woman and starts talking to her and makes her laugh? Fvcking guys think that only happens in the movies and with those with ¨god given gifts¨. ****ers. And that´s just with the date stuff etc. Which sets us apart of 99% of male population. What about the physical stuff? Kissing, sex, whatever. Although, that doesn´t really matter, since we don´t need sex to make them feel like WOMEN. And that 99% of guys can´t do that, make them feel like women before they fvck them.

We men can do great things when we come together.

Whoever says **** about Sosuave, they´re wayyyyy off. Guys continue to come here and get changed. We don´t need canned lines, or to be reading every single thing she says and does, to get a woman to feel as one (as a woman), and to get them to make us feel as men. This is something that distinguishes from other sites of men that make up that %1.

And most importantly we dont need women to be MEN. In the sense 99% of the male population does.

Thank YOU
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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and who do we have to thank!...ourselves...plenty of guys know the techniques...they just dont have the balls to try anything
 

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WE KICK ASk...:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Your so right.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
WE KICK ASk...:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Your so right.
hell yeah we do
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
Hell yeah, we rule!! :up:
"cold approaches don't work"

SamePendo - great post.

I sometimes still get down on myself about my situation with girls, but I've honestly got 5+ girls I could call and arrange a date with whenever I want.

3 of those I would DEFINENTLY get sex with at the end of it.

It is a great situation. You're so completely right.
 

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I just cold approached a young lady today. You should have seen how the blk girls and white boyz were looking @ me they had this expression----:mad:
I gave them a super duper ALPHA EYE CHECK like this :trouble: They knew I would :box: their arse.

I'm like all kinds of nice, YO?!
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
We men can do great things when we come together.
:crackup: Oh man... That's one way to put it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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