I'm completely with you on this one dude: I don't care how "objectively hot" she looks to my friends, or anybody else for that matter - if she's boring, or uninteresting, I'm out.
There was a comedian, I believe his name is Ron White, who said in one of his shows:
"My wife and I have been married 20 years, and something I've started to notice is that after a certain amount of time, things that used to be taught, are starting to sag a little bit.
But with the wonders of modern surgical technology these days, that's not an issue.
You see, we've come so far now, that you could literally walk into any titty-bar in america, point out a pair of tit's on a woman that you like and say 'I want them titties, on my wife', and it can be done.
And if my wife puts on a little bit of weight, and she can't be bothered going to the gym and losing that weight, well she can now go and see somebody who will make her tummy look as tight as it did when she was a 16 year old cheerleader.
....but you can't fix dumb.
There is no surgery you can have, or pill you can take: if you're stupid, you're stupid"
I've always appreciated that sketch.
And besides, it's got sh1te all to do with what my mates think is hot: I'm only going to go after women I am personally attracted to, women that I'M actually interested in, not what society says I should be.
Fvck living a life by other's standards.