"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Do you rate women strictly on appearence or do you look a little deeper?

P

pointbreak23

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2010
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Ive known plenty of girls that would be considered 8's or 9's based on looks but when you get to know them a little bit, their personality strongly decreases their score in my eyes. Does anyone else feel this way or does it not matter? I ask this because i was recently in a situation where i could choose between an 8 with a terrible personality and a 6 with a great personality, i went with the 6 and none of my friends understand why.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

E

Ease

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2009
Messages
1,320
Reaction score
51
Unless shes huge, she will not have a 'personality'. Unless she has something hugely annoying or ridicilous about her, they've all got their good and bad points.

Its all about looks. The rest is what you do with it. A girl with high interest is a girl fun to be around.

Shuda went with the 8.

On topic: when you get into dating a girl for a while, her looks rating goes up by at least 1-2 points. A 7 easily turns into the girl of your dreams with relationship blindness. I wouldnt date anything below a 7 on the long term however.
 
Z

Ziniath

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
47
Reaction score
8
I'm completely with you on this one dude: I don't care how "objectively hot" she looks to my friends, or anybody else for that matter - if she's boring, or uninteresting, I'm out.

There was a comedian, I believe his name is Ron White, who said in one of his shows:

"My wife and I have been married 20 years, and something I've started to notice is that after a certain amount of time, things that used to be taught, are starting to sag a little bit.

But with the wonders of modern surgical technology these days, that's not an issue.

You see, we've come so far now, that you could literally walk into any titty-bar in america, point out a pair of tit's on a woman that you like and say 'I want them titties, on my wife', and it can be done.

And if my wife puts on a little bit of weight, and she can't be bothered going to the gym and losing that weight, well she can now go and see somebody who will make her tummy look as tight as it did when she was a 16 year old cheerleader.

....but you can't fix dumb.

There is no surgery you can have, or pill you can take: if you're stupid, you're stupid"

I've always appreciated that sketch.

And besides, it's got sh1te all to do with what my mates think is hot: I'm only going to go after women I am personally attracted to, women that I'M actually interested in, not what society says I should be.

Fvck living a life by other's standards.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top