"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you prey on women?

sosocool

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Some call them womanizers.

Others, sexual predators.

Guys who intentionally go out to stores, malls, and even the streets to approach and pick up women.

Do you prey on women?

Or,

Do you see it as something else?

If purposefully going out to meet women, no matter where is being a sexual predator, I am guilty as sin.

For me, it's a cheap thrill; an adventure full of surprises. If others have a problem with it, they can kiss my A@@ cause it brings me some joy, and not many things can do that so no ones gonna take that away from me.

that's my attitude.

What's your excuse?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Proselytiser

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Being a sexual predator is forcing yourself on women.

How the **** am I supposed to meet a woman if I can't approach one? How is a woman supposed to meet a man if she can't be approached? If a woman approaches me does that make her a sexual predator?

Don't let yourself be shamed by this bull**** reasoning
 

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Nice questions, Sosocool. I initially never thought of going out to clubs, bars, or wherever with the sole intention to pick up as being predatory, as it's a two-way game, hence I never viewed it that way. By loose definition, however, 'exploitation' (which is what 'picking up' is) is in part predatory behaviour; we use tactics such as isolation and manipulation to get what we want from girls (i.e. sex), so in that view, yeah, it is predatory.

I'm sure others on here will disagree, since terms such as 'predatory behaviour' have acquired sinister, illegal connotations. But as I wrote, picking up is predatory by the loosely defined sense of the word.
 

WaterTiger

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That's not 'preying", that's sarging!

Preying on women is when you use them for money, cars and drugs all the while telling them how much you love them.
 

Poonani Maker

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I just look at some women and go "Ga-roasss." Some women just got the nastiest faces. Some of them should just become lesbian for the rest of their lives because they're never gonna land a hot guy like me.

Women are fools for passing me up, anywhere, anytime. Many are blind as bats, not recognizing a true pipe-layer standing in their presence. Many are scared of the unknown: Me. It takes a woman with big ovaries to get close to me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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