"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you prey on women?

sosocool

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Some call them womanizers.

Others, sexual predators.

Guys who intentionally go out to stores, malls, and even the streets to approach and pick up women.

Do you prey on women?

Or,

Do you see it as something else?

If purposefully going out to meet women, no matter where is being a sexual predator, I am guilty as sin.

For me, it's a cheap thrill; an adventure full of surprises. If others have a problem with it, they can kiss my A@@ cause it brings me some joy, and not many things can do that so no ones gonna take that away from me.

that's my attitude.

What's your excuse?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Proselytiser

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Being a sexual predator is forcing yourself on women.

How the **** am I supposed to meet a woman if I can't approach one? How is a woman supposed to meet a man if she can't be approached? If a woman approaches me does that make her a sexual predator?

Don't let yourself be shamed by this bull**** reasoning
 

BigWillyStyle

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Nice questions, Sosocool. I initially never thought of going out to clubs, bars, or wherever with the sole intention to pick up as being predatory, as it's a two-way game, hence I never viewed it that way. By loose definition, however, 'exploitation' (which is what 'picking up' is) is in part predatory behaviour; we use tactics such as isolation and manipulation to get what we want from girls (i.e. sex), so in that view, yeah, it is predatory.

I'm sure others on here will disagree, since terms such as 'predatory behaviour' have acquired sinister, illegal connotations. But as I wrote, picking up is predatory by the loosely defined sense of the word.
 

WaterTiger

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That's not 'preying", that's sarging!

Preying on women is when you use them for money, cars and drugs all the while telling them how much you love them.
 

Poonani Maker

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I just look at some women and go "Ga-roasss." Some women just got the nastiest faces. Some of them should just become lesbian for the rest of their lives because they're never gonna land a hot guy like me.

Women are fools for passing me up, anywhere, anytime. Many are blind as bats, not recognizing a true pipe-layer standing in their presence. Many are scared of the unknown: Me. It takes a woman with big ovaries to get close to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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