Do You Pass The Jumbotron Test?

[Meisterman]

Every text or email or recordable instance of conversation you have with a girl must follow this simple rule:

If it were given a public airing, let’s say on a blog or a sports stadium jumbotron, you should feel comfortable with what you have written for the world to see. You should not feel an urge to wince, because it will be clear to everyone reading it how alpha you are. If the thought of someone other than you and your girl reading your permanently archived romantic exchanges makes you cringe with embarrassment, then you are doing something wrong that will eventually lead to your girl dumping you.

An example of texting* from a place of beta-tude:

YOU: Good morning, lovechop! I had a gr8 time w u last nite!
HER: Me too. Can’t wait to see you again.
YOU: U free this thurs? Miss u. Muaah muuah!
HER: Aw. Thanks sweetie. Call me later.
YOU: :-D Will do!

People reading this will puke a little and say “What a lameass. Like that’s gonna last.”

An example of texting from a place of alphaness:

YOU: {nothing}
HER: U there? Haven’t heard from u in a while.
YOU: Hey, babe. What’s up?
HER: The love last night was incredible! Have u been thinking of me?
YOU: Just a little.
HER: Miss u already, baby. Muuah!
YOU: {nothing}

The difference is clear. This man has kept his responses shorter than his girl’s and intriguingly aloof. He has refrained from emoting effusively. An objective third party would say “He’s cool. Bet he gets laid a lot.” You want to be a man people think gets laid a lot, even if you don’t.

*Avoid texting on a regular basis. It is borderline beta. A man should not have the empty time to punch in a frivolous conversation with a girl using only his thumb.

 

[JohnChops]

thats exactly how i kept it with my ex-gf, she was head of heels for me. I dumped her she was to attached... this works.

 

[Rainman4707]

Yeah women LOVE texting.
One of the earliest & most important lesson I learned was don't text her much

I even gave one chick a 5 text a day limit ( I told her I wasn't keen on texting & that I wouldn't go above 5 texts a day)

Amuses me very much how frustrated women get when you dont text much.

I've had texts like :-

"What has a woman got to do to get your attention"

"why are you so against texting"

"I swear if you dont reply..this will be the last text EVER" (she send another 5 mins later :crackup:

 

[Meisterman]

Yeah women LOVE texting.
One of the earliest & most important lesson I learned was don't text her much

I even gave one chick a 5 text a day limit ( I told her I wasn't keen on texting & that I wouldn't go above 5 texts a day)

Amuses me very much how frustrated women get when you dont text much.

I've had texts like :-

"What has a woman got to do to get your attention"

"why are you so against texting"

"I swear if you dont reply..this will be the last text EVER" (she send another 5 mins later :crackup:

It's so true. The less you reach out to them, the MORE they will obsess about you. It's actually pretty hilarious how you literally don't have to do anything and her attraction automatically sky rockets with no effort on your part. This is assuming of course you're still seeing her/fu*king on a weekly basis.

 

[GS750]

If she sees you as a high value guy, she's not going to be able to keep herself from texting you. Texting is like crack to girls.

 

[VladPatton]

Only if they're attracted or want a relationship with you. If they don't give a sh!t about you, you'll never hear from them again.

 

[El Payaso]

Only if they're attracted or want a relationship with you. If they don't give a sh!t about you, you'll never hear from them again.

THIS.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

How do you get women atttacted to text like that? I never seem to get that

 

[logicallefty]

How do you get women atttacted to text like that? I never seem to get that

You have to fight hard against your own instincts to want to text more and say more. Easier said than done until you get the hang of it and it starts to come naturally . Just keep telling yourself "I have to do this for me her and most importantly her hamster". And clench your fist and the second you start to tell yourself that this chick is different and you don't have to do this stuff with her punch yourself in the face. They all need it. The less of yourself you text to them the more of you they want in person. I'm going through this right now with a chick she accused me of being married or having a girlfriend just because I don't text her often enough.