i cant understand this 1 i've been trying to meet, 1st time i got her number i tried to make date for next day but she was leaving the country for a week to go back home. when she came back she offered me the week after but no specific time/date as she had exams that week. so i suggested monday/tuesday this week. she agreed. (she always texts me back like within 2mins)
(on friday i got stood up by another facebook HB so was quite angry and ended up trying to meet up with this 1 saying i was on my way home.)
when it came to organising the time on sunday she didn't reply (usually she only takes like 2mins to reply), then i called her the next day and she gave me some BS reason her phone has a block, so i said i was busy wednesday and we should do thursday. she agreed.
i knew full well that she'd probably flake, and low and behold she's done it. i was annoyed so i texted her 'this is the 3rd time you've cancelled on me!
every time u say another time for whatever reason.. :-s u only get one chance with me so how's Sunday?'
she didn't get back to me within a few mins so i know she was not going to reply, so i called her, no pick up.
then i realised it was the 4th time she's actually done it so i decided to tell her i wasn't interested anymore. 'actually u know what, its the 4th time u cancelled, so forget it, i dont want to meet u anymore. its your responsibility to offer another time now, not mine.'
is this all too little too late?
to be honest her past 2 major flakes makes it seem like im just doing her a favour by not wanting to see her anymore. i feel angry cos i put so much effort in trying to sort this out. opening girls is hard work and frustrating when it constantly fails even if u get the number.
i cant figure out how/why these girls suddenly have high interest semi-counter offer then somehow lose interest even if u haven't been too full on or clingy. my only suspicions as they usually are is that in between the periods of her cancelling and u setting up another time she meets some other guy for a date who she likes (not from facebook) and now is only seeing one guy hence flakes on you. is this logical? cos it's my only explanation for what happens..
