"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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do you need to give facebook HBs more time then girls you've already met?

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this has been a sticking point for me, if u meet a chick for a date you've already met if she flakes out on u for whatever reason then next her.

but with facebook girls, you're a complete stranger and she might get more wary of that fact closer to the time of meeting. should u give them more time and allow a couple of flakes?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i cant understand this 1 i've been trying to meet, 1st time i got her number i tried to make date for next day but she was leaving the country for a week to go back home. when she came back she offered me the week after but no specific time/date as she had exams that week. so i suggested monday/tuesday this week. she agreed. (she always texts me back like within 2mins)

(on friday i got stood up by another facebook HB so was quite angry and ended up trying to meet up with this 1 saying i was on my way home.)

when it came to organising the time on sunday she didn't reply (usually she only takes like 2mins to reply), then i called her the next day and she gave me some BS reason her phone has a block, so i said i was busy wednesday and we should do thursday. she agreed.

i knew full well that she'd probably flake, and low and behold she's done it. i was annoyed so i texted her 'this is the 3rd time you've cancelled on me! ;) every time u say another time for whatever reason.. :-s u only get one chance with me so how's Sunday?'

she didn't get back to me within a few mins so i know she was not going to reply, so i called her, no pick up.

then i realised it was the 4th time she's actually done it so i decided to tell her i wasn't interested anymore. 'actually u know what, its the 4th time u cancelled, so forget it, i dont want to meet u anymore. its your responsibility to offer another time now, not mine.'

is this all too little too late?

to be honest her past 2 major flakes makes it seem like im just doing her a favour by not wanting to see her anymore. i feel angry cos i put so much effort in trying to sort this out. opening girls is hard work and frustrating when it constantly fails even if u get the number.

i cant figure out how/why these girls suddenly have high interest semi-counter offer then somehow lose interest even if u haven't been too full on or clingy. my only suspicions as they usually are is that in between the periods of her cancelling and u setting up another time she meets some other guy for a date who she likes (not from facebook) and now is only seeing one guy hence flakes on you. is this logical? cos it's my only explanation for what happens..
 
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Not only did she flake on you 4 times but instead of dropping her a long time ago u told her that u want her to call you and make plans this time.
She wants nothing to to with you with the way that you are acting
 
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but it wasn't actually 4 times.. the 1st 2 she wasn't even in the country, if u want to get pendantic then yes they're flakes. then the one on monday was when it all started to go wrong.

what the hell happened??

friday everything was cool, she was responding to me straight away. it's like as if i they know i have run out of options so flake.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Facebook dating is so attractive, i wonder why these girls are flaking on you.
 
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