do you need friends to get laid

[Thebestthereeveris]

Im in cali rn and all my hs buddies are in new york however even if i was there i would not want to hang out with them as we have completely different values now. I dont know much people here and im 27 do you really need friends to get laid? I had a social circle in college and got some pvssy through connections but most of it was cold approach tbh.
Am i overthinking this? Anyone just travel solo around the world banging hot girls?

 

[corrector]

You need money to use escorts. You need a job to get money.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Absolutely Not.

 

[corrector]

Absolutely Not.

Unless you are his wingman.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

1) Don’t need friends.
2) travel solo across the US. Yes.

I’m in Cali. So. Can vouch on no need for friends.

but having friends & thus social circle does add another option.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I dont have any friends and I got laid 26 times this year so far

 

[corrector]

Being a chad helps.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Not really, but they help.

 

[SW15]

Don't need them. Non-bar approaching is mostly a solo activity. Swipe apps and Insta DM's are also solo. It's even possible to go to nightlife venues solo and approach, though I don't recommend doing that.

Once you arrange the date, it's all on you to get laid from the date. You could also have same night sex from a nightlife approach. It's very rare to get same day sex with a non-bar approach but it has happened.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Don't need them. Non-bar approaching is mostly a solo activity. Swipe apps and Insta DM's are also solo. It's even possible to go to nightlife venues solo and approach, though I don't recommend doing that.

Once you arrange the date, it's all on you to get laid from the date. You could also have same night sex from a nightlife approach. It's very rare to get same day sex with a non-bar approach but it has happened.

Actually. I like solo bar/clubbing. Though going with friends is fun too.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

No. I do better on my own.

 

[SW15]

Get a wing dog.

They can help for outdoor approaching, but outdoor approaching is certainly possible without one.

Actually. I like solo bar/clubbing. Though going with friends is fun too.

In nightlife venues, it's better to have someone with you. Every woman is in a group of 2+ in nightlife venues. In certain non-bar venues for approaching, it's normal for the woman to be alone and isolated from her friends, so she doesn't think it is abnormal that you are alone. This is a big reason why non-bar approaching is better for those who prefer to operate as solo pickup artists. In nightlife venues, there's somewhat of an expectation that you're with at least one other person.

With that said, I have visited nightlife venues and done solo approaching. Never once have I been called out for being alone when I've done it.

 

[corrector]

Why don't you take your grievances to PM, if SW15 did something objectionable? Keep that escort thing in the escort thread.

It is not a matter of grief, it's a matter of logic. Why bother wasting your time when you can just buy it? I'm just trying to understand.
Time is money. You can't get the time back that you lose. It shows that you lack business acumen and have to always resort to adolescent means rather than focusing on income and paying your way.

In @SW15 own words, you are either paying for it directly or indirectly and its exactly the same notch count. If that is the statements that he puts in other threads (one of which is not even related to escorts BTW) then it's fair game to bring that up here as well. So, it's not a matter of what he did, but his official statements as an expert of dating.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

It is not a matter of grief, it's a matter of logic. Why bother wasting your time when you can just buy it? I'm just trying to understand.
Time is money. You can't get the time back that you lose. It shows that you lack business acumen and have to always resort to adolescent means rather than focusing on income and paying your way.

In @SW15 own words, you are either paying for it directly or indirectly and its exactly the same notch count. If that is the statements that he puts in other threads (one of which is not even related to escorts BTW) then it's fair game to bring that up here as well. So, it's not a matter of what he did, but his official statements as an expert of dating.

Im not hating on you, but I remember when you originally joined the forum, watching your descent into bitter hopelessness has been slightly comical. Again, not hating, just saying.

 

[corrector]

Im not hating on you, but I remember when you originally joined the forum, watching your descent into bitter hopelessness has been slightly comical. Again, not hating, just saying.

What are you talking about? Are you a successful business person?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

What are you talking about? Are you a successful business person?

Im not disagreeing with your assertion that everyone pays in one way or another, just made a side observation

I can just picture you paying the escort like "there's another notch on the ol axe handle" Hahahaha sorry

 

[corrector]

Im not disagreeing with your assertion that everyone pays in one way or another, just made a side observation

I can just picture you paying the escort like "there's another notch on the ol axe handle"

That was NOT my assertion. I never made such an assertion but that is @SW15 assertion on another thread. I just think if someone is making such a strong statement then you want to question the veracity of them.

 

[RangerMIke]

Getting laid should not be your purpose. Your purpose should be to find friends that compliment your life, and be the best version of yourself possible. Then try to date women and sex is a byproduct of being a great version of yourself.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Getting laid should not be your purpose. Your purpose should be to find friends that compliment your life, and be the best version of yourself possible. Then try to date women and sex is a byproduct of being a great version of yourself.

I agree, but that's not going to work on a frustrated young male in a college environment.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

I agree, but that's not going to work on a frustrated young male in a college environment.

Why are you frustrated? Work on that first.