"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AETude

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its not love until 50 years later and you are still happy in the same bed.

anyone else want to define love ? because all that bull**** respect mutual shyt doesnt last, theres always something to stuff something up.

I dont think i will ever find true love, but its worth hopping for. letting my heart being stabbed and squashed a few times is enough, its all about personal experience.... Just make everyday a happy day :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RicFury

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Not wanting to game her. Putting her needs at equal importance to yours. Being willing to sacrifice to make the relationship stronger. Loosing interest in other women, both physically and emotionally. Lately I've found that I look at other girls less, and don't fantasize about anyone BUT my gf. Women who used to be attractive to me just aren't anymore, except for my gf who gives me a hardon just thinking about her.

Geez, I thought everybody knew what love is!
I do really love my girlfriend and will NOT cheat on her. I have too much respect for her and she trusts me absolutely.
I felt all of these things, and that is why I got married! Read my post:


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133500
 

(JJ)

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i doubt many people actually ever experience "love". my parents are like the only ones i've ever really seen. they've been married for like 20 years and my dad still negs my mom and stuff (unknowingly, he's too old to kno any kind of game techniques), but they also just enjoy each other's company. when my dad goes outta town, my mom gets genuinely sad about not seeing him. personally, even though i've said i "loved" a girl (dont worry it was like 4 mos into the relationship), i kno that i didnt really. sometimes, people get caught up in the IDEA of love, the same way guys get caught up in the idea of romanticism. love is portrayed the same way that romanticism is in our society, and we all kno how "realistic" movies and things are when it comes to the common theme of "romantic guys getting all the girls"
 

Someone Much cooler

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I love my wifey unconditionally! I plan to be with her for the rest of my life. I will do almost anything for her. i definatly have oneitis cause im not interested in anyone else, but thats cool, thats how we both prefer it. Her name is One hundred dollar bill, she is always with me...=)
 

Fuglydude

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If I didn't love my gf, I wouldn't be with her...why would anyone have an exclusive gf w/o being in love with her???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iqqi

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mintxx said:
I love my girlfriend. I love it when she's happy, and I value her very highly on many levels. But I don't need to be with her for my own happiness, and if she decides she wants to stop seeing me or I decide vice versa, I'm confident that a woman similarly well matched to my personality, intellect, sex drive and demand for black lace and summer dresses will be right around the corner. So, does this mean I'm deficient in some respect? Who knows. I'm a one woman at a time guy, but not a one woman guy. Important difference I reckon.

Props, and rep points.

Its funny when guys act like they are too smart for love, when really they are just scared sh!tless of it.
 

NSUballer

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I knew I didnt love my GF so I broke up with her last week. It hurt because I did like being with her but I knew she was not the "one" I was looking for. Im lookin for the one that can get my attention and hold it forever. The one that will be there no matter what. The one that has grabbed my attention so strongly that i would never consider being with anyone else. The one Im going to marry. Thats what Im looking for, Ive done the one night stand thing and hated it. Ive done the single thing and it sucks. And Ive done the relationship thing and it was great except it wasnt with the right girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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