"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by arutha
Yes you can, for sure any time, but it doesn't matter what you can or can't do it matters what she thinks you can or can't do. You can tell yourself as much as you like that you can just walk away at any time, and you probably really can, but if she thinks otherwise because of something you said its going downhill and you will end up walking away. Better to just say it right the first time IMO..
True that. Well girls have a short attention span anyway. Well about some things, and if you are the greatest mutha ****a alive, then she will want to make sure you stick around, and will forget some of the AFC things that you might do. Or she is a stupid broad. But if she wants you to stick around, then one little mistake aint going to screw too much up.

But he is right, it's better to say the right thing in the first place, then to not say the right thing.
I guess it's because I don't care, that I can just say whatever I want.

But if I find that real cool chick, I aint going to blow it, and say stuid ****, even though she is madly in love with me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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