"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you like me?

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Originally posted by arutha
Yes you can, for sure any time, but it doesn't matter what you can or can't do it matters what she thinks you can or can't do. You can tell yourself as much as you like that you can just walk away at any time, and you probably really can, but if she thinks otherwise because of something you said its going downhill and you will end up walking away. Better to just say it right the first time IMO..
True that. Well girls have a short attention span anyway. Well about some things, and if you are the greatest mutha ****a alive, then she will want to make sure you stick around, and will forget some of the AFC things that you might do. Or she is a stupid broad. But if she wants you to stick around, then one little mistake aint going to screw too much up.

But he is right, it's better to say the right thing in the first place, then to not say the right thing.
I guess it's because I don't care, that I can just say whatever I want.

But if I find that real cool chick, I aint going to blow it, and say stuid ****, even though she is madly in love with me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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