"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Do you like me?"

popsickle

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I have been exclusive with my girlfriend for about 4 months now. It's been going well and we do a lot of activities/trips together and with others.
Recently there has been a recurring theme of her telling me that she likes me "a lot" and then asking me if "I even like her". At first I thought it was just kind of a joke so I dealt with it playfully. A few days ago though she talked to me a bit more seriously and told me she really feels like she is doing everything to make me happy (which is true) and finds that she is unsure whether I feel the same way and that I don't seem to put as much effort.
I am not sure how to deal with this - how much reassurance can I really give verbally? I obviously don't want her to feel like I am detached as I think she is a great girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doctor Europeo

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Maybe tell her that I you didn´t like her, you wouldn´t be investing time in her.
 

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You're being too distant/aloof.

Don't be so aloof.
Probably so. He might be a bit too internalized with some reluctance in expressing his thoughts and feelings.
She may not be getting the message she wants to hear.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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