"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Do you like me?"

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What do you do if she flat out ask's you.
This is something that I just now remembered and HAD to ask =P I am still in contact with her too.

A few month's ago, I was sitting in gym class and this girl that was friends with me flat out asked me if I liked her. * in front of 10-20 peers * randomly, she said somebody told her I liked her. I said "I used to". And she said " back when we used to see each other every day?" I replied with yes....and let that convo die. The truth is, I am actually interested in her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hmmm.

Her asking you infront of heaps of peers sounds like she was on a bit of an ego trip to me. She wanted everyone else to know you liked her. The best response I can think of is, "yeah, you're ok." and give her a cheeky smile.
 
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You should've just told her straight up..."If you really want to know, you can ask me in private."

Or even better...I just remembered this from a ****y funny thread. You look her up and down giving her the once over you know? Then you focus on say her breasts or kinda crane your neck pretending your looking at her ass and say, "yeah parts of you." *cue the sly smile*
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Or even better...I just remembered this from a ****y funny thread. You look her up and down giving her the once over you know? Then you focus on say her breasts or kinda crane your neck pretending your looking at her ass and say, "yeah parts of you." *cue the sly smile*
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Love it :up:.
 
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pvf94 said:
What do you do if she flat out ask's you.
This is something that I just now remembered and HAD to ask =P I am still in contact with her too.

A few month's ago, I was sitting in gym class and this girl that was friends with me flat out asked me if I liked her. * in front of 10-20 peers * randomly, she said somebody told her I liked her. I said "I used to". And she said " back when we used to see each other every day?" I replied with yes....and let that convo die. The truth is, I am actually interested in her.
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"Nope. You're absolutely disgusting (Flash her a ****y smile)."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah sounds like she was on an ego trip... but what about if you ask a girl "do you like me?" is that ok, or would that be too needy?
 
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yeah sounds like she was on an ego trip... but what about if you ask a girl "do you like me?" is that ok, or would that be too needy?
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Yeah never ask that man. You should never ask an female your interested in about what she thinks of you - until you've known her for a long time.

Depending on your personality it either comes off as insecure or arrogant.
 
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