"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you lie about your age to younger girls???

zekko

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Even though I've indicated it already, I am not promoting lying to a girl you want to have a relationship with... sigh...
But what if the girl that you're hitting on for a one night stand turns out to be someone you form a more lasting connection with? Now you've started your relationship off with a lie.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I say, "I'm 27." and when they're getting ready to respond, i say, "no, im 34", and then again when they're getting ready to respond i say, "no im 42"... normally gets a good laugh....

that's pretty much how i answer any question a woman asks me in the "meet" process. if they keep pressing - i keep subcommunicating for them to fvck off. after a while, they stop asking me questions like that.

"how old are you?"
"where do you work?"
"do you live on campus?" (thinking im a student)
"what kind of car do you drive?"
"blah blah blah..."

fvck all that noise... from boring talk to sexual tension as fast as possible...

the only way i operate.
 
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