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Do you let girls know you're also fvcking other girls?

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A guy I know says to me that he tells the one girl on his team (the one that he likes the best) about his other chics. Holds nothing back.
I was like 'why dude??' and he says she realizes he's the big prize with so many women round him.


I'm thinking of trying this but not convinced it's gonna be effective..:D


Do any experiencd DJ's here tell the girls this and if so what is your reason? Do you tell all the girls on your team that there are others or maybe just one?
 

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If your not looking for a serious relationship then, yes.. Might as well tell the other girls so, they dont get the wrong idea and go psycho on you when they find out. :crazy:
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
If your not looking for a serious relationship then, yes.. Might as well tell the other girls so, they dont get the wrong idea and go psycho on you when they find out. :crazy:
Ok I get that. Makes a lot of sense.
But this guy I was talking to said he tells them to illustreate his own high value to them. said it works every time when he likes one more than the rest of his team.
He even did it with a girl he was looking to get serious with to show her he is in demand and she had competition.
 

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First are the guys your friend meets and beds the kind of girls you would like to be with?(be honest) IF not then do not follow his lead. From my experience the girls that are stable, independent, attractive, etc do not want to hear any other girls you are dating. They will be gone as fast as you told them, especially latina women.
 

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There's no need for you to tell them anything.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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WhtRbt said:
There's no need for you to tell them anything.
agreed. They should pick up on your vibe of "not caring", not putting to much effort

NOt caring too much, not putting too much effort, calling them over and over (perseistent) = you have options = you are getting laid alot already VIBE.

Its like offering a billionaire $100 bucks.. you really want the $100? You could care effing less why? because you so damn rich and you know it.

THe person who offered you $100 bucks will AUTOMATICALLY KNOW without asking, DAMN, he refused my free $100?? WHY??? HE MUST BE RICH!! And that idea of you being rich will linger in that person's head

and guess what, you didnt even have to tell that person you're rich
 
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There a cuple bonuses of telling them... 1 is the competition. 2 is you could end up having a three way...

Your friend does it for a reason and I agree. Tell them. Say your not really looking for a relationship;their cool but, you also got other women in your life.
 

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I think the key to this is absolutely not giving a sh1t what they react towards you. If you sound defensive and trying to justify and explain it to her, you'll probably lose your harem.
 

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Ha, the answer is undoubtedly no.

Now should you care if some chick knows you're messing around with other girls? The answer is still undoubtedly no.. unless she's your girl then learn to keep your sh!t under wraps..

And do girls usually want you more if they know you're banging a bunch of other h0's / friends??

In my experience, YES. At least at a primal level (you know they'll never admit it but deep down they want that dude who's got vag!na lined up all the time.. girls wrap around guys who have many options)

It's really all about being on a higher level.. some guys have 1 girl as an option weekly, some guys 2, some guys 10. It's only natural for women to aspire to be 'that girl' who's at the top of the list of the dude who's got 10 girls on his booty call.

Consciously girls will never admit this, but this sh!t happens all the time. Even those so called 'classy' girls want to be all over it if she knows he's got a lot of women on his sh!t.

Bragging about how many women you sleep with is NOT the way to show women this higher power. Sleeping with many women and having them around whenever your choosing IS a way of projecting your value.

I get that sh!t all the time from girls.. "oh I hear you just use girls and move on to the next.."

You damn right b!tch.. I'll never say that to them, but deep down they know I'll probably use them as well. It just makes them want to work for it all the more.
 

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AcerGuild said:
A guy I know says to me that he tells the one girl on his team (the one that he likes the best) about his other chics. Holds nothing back.
I was like 'why dude??' and he says she realizes he's the big prize with so many women round him.

I seriously doubt the girl would continue seeing him if he really disclosed that information to her.


"Hi Cindy. Just wanted you to know that I'm the man, and that I'm not only putting it inside you, but I'm also putting it inside Jennifer and Grace when I feel like. You better not have a problem with it because I'm God's gift to women."

"I think I love you even more! Just let me know when you want to put it inside me and I'll be ready."


I'm thinking of trying this but not convinced it's gonna be effective..:D
If you tell a girl such a thing, it means you have no game and are using threats and put downs to scare her into not leaving you. Sorry bro, but your friend has no game even if he is sleeping with 5 girls at one time. I would keep my mouth shut.
 

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Don't tell anybody anything, guys and girls alike!

Tell a guy and then you're in an interview.

Tell a girl and she may snap on you.
 
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"Ha, the answer is undoubtedly no.

Now should you care if some chick knows you're messing around with other girls? The answer is still undoubtedly no.. unless she's your girl then learn to keep your sh!t under wraps..

And do girls usually want you more if they know you're banging a bunch of other h0's / friends??

In my experience, YES. At least at a primal level (you know they'll never admit it but deep down they want that dude who's got vag!na lined up all the time.. girls wrap around guys who have many options)

It's really all about being on a higher level.. some guys have 1 girl as an option weekly, some guys 2, some guys 10. It's only natural for women to aspire to be 'that girl' who's at the top of the list of the dude who's got 10 girls on his booty call.

Consciously girls will never admit this, but this sh!t happens all the time. Even those so called 'classy' girls want to be all over it if she knows he's got a lot of women on his sh!t.

Bragging about how many women you sleep with is NOT the way to show women this higher power. Sleeping with many women and having them around whenever your choosing IS a way of projecting your value.

I get that sh!t all the time from girls.. "oh I hear you just use girls and move on to the next.."

You damn right b!tch.. I'll never say that to them, but deep down they know I'll probably use them as well. It just makes them want to work for it all the more."

But why? Why do they do this? Is this some sort of result of "liberation"? Obviously,I'm not a guy used to that sort of thing,so it's always seemed like something I would have a hard time achieving. I guess it's the age old question,why do girls always go for *******s so easily? I guess it's my own mentality. I never saw myself as "god's gift to women". I don't see myself as the prize,maybe it's a reaction against something I don't like in people.
 

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Ok thanks guys.
This goes against what a lot of the guys I hang out with tend to believe. They believe it increases your value with women if they know that you have options..it makes them work harder for you. That seems to work for some of them.
 

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EDIT:

How about we flip the situation. Lets say you meet this girl and go on a couple dates. Later, she tells you she is keeping her options open and is seeing other guys. What would you do? You would proably step your game up to get her if you really wanted her. Or she wont tell you and the girl you like is out fvcking other dudes and you dont know about it...

So, I'm sticking with what I said and let the girl know your with other girls. If you do not want a serious relationship with her.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Maybe, some of you guys are dating a girl who is also fvcking other guys... Wouldnt you want her to say she is dating other guys?
See, I'm always asking this one girl about other guys...I think of all the times shes not with me or calling me shes with other guys. I ask her every time I call 'is there a guy with you right now?' or if she doesn't text me right back I make some joke about her getting fvcked by other guys..
she never gave me reason to think she has any other guys right now but I ask. But to that girl me asking how does that look? needy I guess. jeez gonna puke..lol. never thought of that.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
How about we flip the situation. Lets say you meet this girl and go on a couple dates. Later, she tells you she is keeping her options open and is seeing other guys. What would you do? You would proably step your game up to get her if you really wanted her. Or she wont tell you and the girl you like is out fvcking other dudes and you dont know about it...

So, I'm sticking with what I said and let the girl know your with other girls. If you do not want a serious relationship with her.
How would you step your game up with her? If you liked her?
 

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AcerGuild said:
How would you step your game up with her? If you liked her?
Well if your trying to get with a girl who has other options. You would do things to show her you are the better guy than the rest.

So, you might try to be more cool and mysterious around her. Be for more fun and interesting than the other guys. Escelate things with her more and ect.

Just like your question. If the girls you are with know your with other girls. The ones who really want you will try hard to have you and only you.
 

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AcerGuild said:
See, I'm always asking this one girl about other guys...I think of all the times shes not with me or calling me shes with other guys. I ask her every time I call 'is there a guy with you right now?' or if she doesn't text me right back I make some joke about her getting fvcked by other guys..
she never gave me reason to think she has any other guys right now but I ask. But to that girl me asking how does that look? needy I guess. jeez gonna puke..lol. never thought of that.
Reality can be harsh... But, if she isnt giving you signs then, dont be insecure and or jealous. If you start calling her all the time being insecure and all that.. She wont like it and feel you arent giving her space and trust issues and blah blah blah. Just worry about you.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Well if your trying to get with a girl who has other options. You would do things to show her you are the better guy than the rest.

So, you might try to be more cool and mysterious around her. Be for more fun and interesting than the other guys. Escelate things with her more and ect.

Just like your question. If the girls you are with know your with other girls. The ones who really want you will try hard to have you and only you.
This helps a lot. I'm trying to up my game with this one chick right now.
Also thanks for the heads up on the insecure garbage I'm loading at her - needed to hear that.
Cheers mate!
 
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