"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you let girls feel your hard on???

Reyaj

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Basic question here but when I dance with girls or make out with them my **** naturally gets hard.......

In the past I've been conscious of this and tried to move my pelvis away so the girls wouldn't feel it. Now a days I just take a rake mentality and I don't care if I brush up against them with my dik being hard....


How do you all feel????
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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D!ck Ramsey

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They might think you are gay if you dont get a stiffy.

I say let em have it
 

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Dancing might be a little awkward, but if you are making out, then it is their own damn fault. Get them to sit on your lap, and they will feel special.
 

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According to girls I know, getting a boner while grinding is expected.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ace of Flames

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If she's any kind of girl, she wants to feel it. It confirms that you find them sexy. Girls like that.

If a girl got freaked out by it or didn't like it, she's probably a prude, or else you got the boner at an unusual time.
 

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Haha, I have been through this before. This girl I had a SERIOUS crush on asked me to slow dance with her at the junior prom in high school. I had such an enourmous boner I had to keep backing away (to avoid embarassment).

In all other situations though, I wouldn't worry about it. EVERY WOMAN since then has not seemed to mind. They actually like it, because they will grind even harder.
 

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hahaha.. I was actually wondering this as well at how many guys just let it fly.... But yeah if i'm freaking with a girl I'm not afraid to stick it to em.
 

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When I used to dance I would think of a naked grandma and horrific murder scenes.

I'm not proud of that. But I did what I had to.

Now that I stopped beating it so much it's not as, err, sympathetic to external influences...

(AKA: Dry humping a hottie)
 

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WTF? I have a penis, and if I'm grinding on a chick, it's going to get hard. Too bad for her, if she doesn't like it, she should at least understand. And if she doesn't understand, she's retarded. I'm not about to make my penis avoid contact with the girl just because he's excited. Let him loose.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yea go for it. you come off as awkward if ur trying to hide it. and you definately lack confidence in your own sexuality. There is no What ifs. Rub that **** against her.
 

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lol Alkali, your weird dude, talking about that kind of shyt because u think she might get offended. Your whole views are skewed.
 

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Unless you think chicks rub their asses against your schnobbleknocker just to pass time, you're a ****in disgrace to the state of Sparta if you ain't sending no weapons of mmmmm-ass destruction to her trouble zone, ya dig? Chicks ****in DIG the freak that's unleashed: calm, smooth, collected, and harder than a Series 7 exam while recovering from last night's beer bong binge. Try this as an experiment: next time you're grinding up on ANY chick you'd easily bone, dance like you're actually ****ing her. And that music in the background? That's your soundtrack. Let the music penetrate HER through YOU... TRUST ME, she'll feel it, lol. And she'll know EXACTLY what you want. Because she wants it too.

Now run along, and stop *****footin', that dance is like, soooooo out of style
 

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This issue has been discussed previously in many other threads.

Yes, just be cool and grind with it. They like it, you like it, it's win-win.
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Honestly the only women who are going to have a problem with it are inexperienced. And even if they do have a problem with it, don't back off and be all awkward. She'll soon find its natural, and probably only had a problem with it in the first place because all the guys she grinded with before you always backed off when they got a hard on.

But most girls can't get me hard they have to be dancing like a FREAK.
 

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OMG i was actually asking myself this last night!!

Here's what i did: firs i was like bitting my lip or avoiding making out (i think thats how you say it) cause i thought that if she looked at my boner would be odd.

But then, fu** it!: "if you dont like it then leave" i thought. I think she didnt bother at all, in fact i think that it would boost here confidence cause shell know she turns me on.. so: at the end of the night i didnt waist my time puting my pelvis away when making out ! =)

PS: what does "Grind" in this context mean ? (i dont speak too much english..)
 

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Grinding = essentially dry humping during dancing. Its when a girl dances up on you and rubs her ass all over your crotch. That kinda thing.

And yes, let them have that boner. Why do you think they're dancing up on you like that?
 

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So far two people have come up complaining that this conversation has been had before... Why? What's wrong with making a new one? It gets a lot more people into them.

Oh and by the way. From my experience women love it. ^_^
 
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