"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you let girls feel your hard on???

Reyaj

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Basic question here but when I dance with girls or make out with them my **** naturally gets hard.......

In the past I've been conscious of this and tried to move my pelvis away so the girls wouldn't feel it. Now a days I just take a rake mentality and I don't care if I brush up against them with my dik being hard....


How do you all feel????
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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D!ck Ramsey

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They might think you are gay if you dont get a stiffy.

I say let em have it
 

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Dancing might be a little awkward, but if you are making out, then it is their own damn fault. Get them to sit on your lap, and they will feel special.
 

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According to girls I know, getting a boner while grinding is expected.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ace of Flames

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If she's any kind of girl, she wants to feel it. It confirms that you find them sexy. Girls like that.

If a girl got freaked out by it or didn't like it, she's probably a prude, or else you got the boner at an unusual time.
 

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Haha, I have been through this before. This girl I had a SERIOUS crush on asked me to slow dance with her at the junior prom in high school. I had such an enourmous boner I had to keep backing away (to avoid embarassment).

In all other situations though, I wouldn't worry about it. EVERY WOMAN since then has not seemed to mind. They actually like it, because they will grind even harder.
 

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hahaha.. I was actually wondering this as well at how many guys just let it fly.... But yeah if i'm freaking with a girl I'm not afraid to stick it to em.
 

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When I used to dance I would think of a naked grandma and horrific murder scenes.

I'm not proud of that. But I did what I had to.

Now that I stopped beating it so much it's not as, err, sympathetic to external influences...

(AKA: Dry humping a hottie)
 

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WTF? I have a penis, and if I'm grinding on a chick, it's going to get hard. Too bad for her, if she doesn't like it, she should at least understand. And if she doesn't understand, she's retarded. I'm not about to make my penis avoid contact with the girl just because he's excited. Let him loose.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yea go for it. you come off as awkward if ur trying to hide it. and you definately lack confidence in your own sexuality. There is no What ifs. Rub that **** against her.
 

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lol Alkali, your weird dude, talking about that kind of shyt because u think she might get offended. Your whole views are skewed.
 

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Unless you think chicks rub their asses against your schnobbleknocker just to pass time, you're a ****in disgrace to the state of Sparta if you ain't sending no weapons of mmmmm-ass destruction to her trouble zone, ya dig? Chicks ****in DIG the freak that's unleashed: calm, smooth, collected, and harder than a Series 7 exam while recovering from last night's beer bong binge. Try this as an experiment: next time you're grinding up on ANY chick you'd easily bone, dance like you're actually ****ing her. And that music in the background? That's your soundtrack. Let the music penetrate HER through YOU... TRUST ME, she'll feel it, lol. And she'll know EXACTLY what you want. Because she wants it too.

Now run along, and stop *****footin', that dance is like, soooooo out of style
 

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This issue has been discussed previously in many other threads.

Yes, just be cool and grind with it. They like it, you like it, it's win-win.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Honestly the only women who are going to have a problem with it are inexperienced. And even if they do have a problem with it, don't back off and be all awkward. She'll soon find its natural, and probably only had a problem with it in the first place because all the guys she grinded with before you always backed off when they got a hard on.

But most girls can't get me hard they have to be dancing like a FREAK.
 

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OMG i was actually asking myself this last night!!

Here's what i did: firs i was like bitting my lip or avoiding making out (i think thats how you say it) cause i thought that if she looked at my boner would be odd.

But then, fu** it!: "if you dont like it then leave" i thought. I think she didnt bother at all, in fact i think that it would boost here confidence cause shell know she turns me on.. so: at the end of the night i didnt waist my time puting my pelvis away when making out ! =)

PS: what does "Grind" in this context mean ? (i dont speak too much english..)
 

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Grinding = essentially dry humping during dancing. Its when a girl dances up on you and rubs her ass all over your crotch. That kinda thing.

And yes, let them have that boner. Why do you think they're dancing up on you like that?
 

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So far two people have come up complaining that this conversation has been had before... Why? What's wrong with making a new one? It gets a lot more people into them.

Oh and by the way. From my experience women love it. ^_^
 
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