picard
Master Don Juan
Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?
I avoid dating HR women. I hate HR dept.
these women drive me nuts.
I avoid dating HR women. I hate HR dept.
these women drive me nuts.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DonS said:Social workers and nurses.
fuzzx said:The best are women with no profession.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No it's not a joke. I have dated all sorts of AMERICAN women, and the one's who have professions are usually BPD and will ruin you.kingy said:lol i hope this is a joke..... i mean seriously
Add in teachers, child care workers, counselors, psychologists, liberal lawyers and any woman who works in a 'caring profession'.DonS said:Social workers and nurses.
Good post HH...Hooligan Harry said:Depends where they come from. In any western country, a woman without a university education will be datable. University educated makes them nothing more than ****able.
Why?
Because the socialist windbags that most universities produce in droves tend to produce self entitled, man hating feminists in even higher numbers. Women are impressionable and give her a degree, and by default a stamp of approval as an expert in anything, and you will constantly have to deal with her interpretations of a given situation as law. Worse than that is the liberal, left wing thinking these institutions ingrain in so many women . They are indoctrinated further into the man hating, victim mentality that is the problem with modern women and it is spread like a virus within universities. Statistically speaking, university educated women in the west have the highest rate of divorce and that lends some serious weight to my views.
Most university educated women are hard work, but university educated with social sciences of some sort are nearly impossible to date. The only word that describes 95% of them would be "cvnts". So you have your work cut out for you if she has a degree of some sort, especially when its not relevant to her interests. When its a degree in a social science, like psychology for example, you are walking into a sh1tstorm. I have respect for a woman who becomes a doctor. Or an engineer. Or a marine biologist. Most of the time though, she is going to have a major in english literature or marketing or some other stupid **** that is a "passion" because it makes use of her "creativity." Bah, the pretentiousness of it all makes me sick.
Now, give me an educated girl from eastern Europe, Russia or South America any day of the week. I dont even bother trying to discuss politics, history or business with a western woman unless I want her to **** that biker at the bar the same night. I need to keep it "fun" and "light" and tease her all night long like a 5 year old child. If I tried to tease a Russian woman like a 5 year old child and I was only ever "fun" she would think me retarded and shallow. Im happy to **** both of them, I just prefer the company of one more than the other.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Could not agree more, with this post and Hooligan's.jophil28 said:Good post HH...
Particularly,"..university educated with (a degree in ) social sciences of some sort.."
I have dated five of those in recent years. All were just hard labor and aggravating in the extreme. Talk about a log on their shoulder..
MY favorite was a special ed teacher with a masters in DipSh!t Learning, and who also had massive case of high functioning BPD... Wow, was she a fun person to have around after a few adult beverages.
No one is saying they're intimidated by certain professions. They're describing perceived correlations between certain professions and personalities, these personalities belonging to women who would make your life miserable if you dated them.robinincarolina said:A successful woman in any proffesion needs to date a man who is not intimidated by it and a man that knows what he wants and goes after it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hooligan Harry said:Because the socialist windbags that most universities produce in droves tend to produce self entitled, man hating feminists in even higher numbers. Women are impressionable and give her a degree, and by default a stamp of approval as an expert in anything, and you will constantly have to deal with her interpretations of a given situation as law. Worse than that is the liberal, left wing thinking these institutions ingrain in so many women . They are indoctrinated further into the man hating, victim mentality that is the problem with modern women and it is spread like a virus within universities. Statistically speaking, university educated women in the west have the highest rate of divorce and that lends some serious weight to my views.
robinincarolina said:I am not suggesting that men are intimidated by women in certain proffesions, although some I am sure are. I guess what I am suggesting is get to know the woman, not her proffesion. Women stereo type men and thier proffesions too.
Contruction worker: Drunks
Hair dressers: Gay
Doctors: Too busy
Factory Workers: High school diploma/no ambition
Engineers: Smart
Salesmen: ****y and confident and fun
robinincarolina said:Feminism has not hurt women in my opinion, we really don't have a choice, we have to survive as well and some of us not only want to survive, we want to thrive so whats so wrong with that? All we want is a man who is capable of being present with us. Physically and emotionally.
robinincarolina said:A smart emotionally healthy woman would run for the hills when she met you.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.